I have a tight vagina as well, I am a bit worried about it. we tried using lube and foreplay and everything but it seems to not work out. adding to the problem is the fact that my partner's penis is big. I feel like screaming and crying at the same time. We decided to buy a dildo just to loosen it.
have you ever tried doing it in the water? ive been told it works like a charm. im going through the same thing. im 18 and recently started dating my boyfriend. when we have sex, it takes him a while to get in. also, he likes the girl on top, but i cant do that for him because he cant get in all the way and it hurts me too much. ive heard the kegel exersizes really do work. ive recently started them. its only been a few days so far but i think theyre working. ive also heard you should be as wet s possible. try foreplay for like 30minutes-1 hour before having sex. the more turned on and wet you are, makes it easier for him to get in. or you can do something else ive been trying. stick one finger inside your vagina to start with... use just one finger for a few days (atleast twice a day), then try 2 fingers and when u feel comfortable, try three. three fingers are supposed to be about the width of an average sized penis. if your man is bigger than that u can try four but i wouldnt recommend it. i hope this helps.
4play girl! lots of lube. also include fingers in 4-play, start with 1 and try to slowly get up to 3 fingers, another thing Relax! relax relax! it can help keep you a little more loose. or theres always toys. find ones varying in sizes and slowly go up in size then try sex with the bf :)
Bulletproof Vagina was the joke I told this girlfriend I had , we tried a few days without success with lube , oils etc.... she was still virgin at 36yrs , it just didn't go inside.
Try k2 petroleum jelly it will
Help loosen your walls of your uterus to be able to let the penis penetration be less painful. What ever questions you have you can go research on youtube and get a notebook and write it down. Every time you learn a new diagnosed write it down
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Call a gynecologists office and ask the receptionist if the doc has had other patients with vaginsmus before. Some haven't and it's better to go to someone who's had feedback from their other patients. And if you can't afford one, then look up the condition and get a set of dilators (look like dildos but purpose is to gradually train pelvic muscles to loosen up) and a glycerin-free lube (no point in getting a yeast infection) and start with the smallest and progress. Might take time but so worth it from personal experience! Do it every day and try to relax
The vagina is made to stretch enormously (think childbirth) but only under certain conditions. Simply, the more aroused you are, the more stretchy the vagina becomes. If your partner isn't hugely turning you on, you shouldn't be having sex with that person, at least at that time. It should go without saying that women deserve sexual enjoyment as much as men, and need to stop seeing the problem as necessarily something inherently wrong with their bodies when it's really incompatibility or infection (which can be passed from the partner, who needs to be treated so he stops infecting you) or mental/emotional issues based in past experience. And women really need to stop martyring themselves for the sake of their partner's pleasure. (Ask yourself, would your partner do the same?)
Me and my boyfriend have had sex like everyday but today just isn't the same my vagina is super tight and really sore can someone please help me .
I had this issue at the start of my relationship with my boyfriend of 6+ years. I would be so tight it hurt us both. It turns out it was a phsycological problem rather than physioligical. Even though I thought I was comfortable there was something stopping me from being completely relaxed which meant I was tense down there. We managed to get past this by some mental preparation. We would take things slow, kiss etc and build up to it, get naked and take deep slow breaths. Once a bit more relaxed he would get ready to enter me from on top and whisper sweet things in my ear and slowly slide in. It may seem like hassle but it made each time so passionate and really felt like 'making love'. After a while the problem went away and 6 years on we still have the most amazing sex.
I hope my experience can help you.
My vagina was my problem. I’ve had a lot of sex growing up but I don’t think that’s the reason..I could’t ask my friends about it because we’re too close and it would be embarrassing, I decided to come on here.. after came here i heard about the myotaut from google. Myotaut serum is one of the best way to make vagina lips smaller again I also recently purchased this product about a month ago, it is been great. I’m surprised that it really works.
Sounds like you haven't been in sexually active very long. Or just starting out. Comfortable sex takes patience and understanding on both parties. Always have him go down on you until you climax first. That will loosen it up a bit. Then Use plenty of lube and get on top that way you can control the angle and depth of penetration. Just hope he can hold out
I guess I feel a bit better that it isn't just me. We tried for the third time tonight to have sex and all this time I thought it was the condom causing problems but now we think I am just too tight. I'm so disheartened and I honestly started to cry a little bit. I want to be with him sexually but I just don't know what else to do. I get pretty wet and the condoms we were using are lubricated, so I didn't think we'd need lube. But maybe that will help. I'm not sure. :\
I love , love myotaut product ! I do kegals and the comparison is next to none , it really tightens and gives you that extra boost of confidence to give him that good, good.It is a little drying so lube is needed.But this is a must have , its worth every penny!
Dear ,
Firstly it stems from your fobia and if you dont have any problem phsically with your vagina , just read.
I have a small penis and had a very girlfriend who has very tight one and had some bad experiences with the other boyfriends penises. After she met me, during our first sex session, even though ı have a small one she was extremely tight to me. But she liked it a lot and orgasmed for hours without any pain because phsicologically " pain is in her mind" and she believed small penis never hurts her. Now we broke up and she has a boyfriend who has a much larger penis of mine and she says no pain because of ı helped her to beat her fobia during our relationship by gently sex with my small penis. She still calls me and thanks million times for it.
Maybe it worths a try for you girls?
I am tight to, and my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me because he is afraid of hurting me. Help needed ASAP
A guy friend mention to me that he read in a book that when a woman goes for a long time without having sex her vagina is tight and that you can feel a woman's uterus when he penetrates her. Is this true?
I've had this problem for a while now and I am so happy I've found this.
After sex or during I regularly get tears and bleed a little. Nothing is working and after reading some of the things you've all suggested hopefully something will help.
Just here to say thank you, have been going for months looking for an answer to what is going on, and it's nice to know I'm not the only one with this problem!
Well I've had the same problem with my boyfriend; we have been together for 3 years now and at the beginning sex was very painful for me.
We had tried many things a lot of foreplay, lube and different exercises, finally I got so exasperated that I talk to my doctor about it. She examines me and said that everything was normal but I was a little tight, so she recommended that I see a physiotherapist that could work my pelvic muscle. It help a lot, the pain was diminish by at least 50%.
The other thing I learn from my doctor is that the pain was partially psychological. In fact, since sex hurt, each time I was about to have intercourse, my pelvic muscle would tighten in the anticipation of the pain, making penetration even more painful for me. The only trick for that is to relax and to take it slow
Good Luck
Ashley
Could you please suggest name of the product/ brand available in market.. and hope no side effects ? Thanks.
I'm tight too n its also hard for him to go in me. Once he does go in n we change position he pulls out n it's even tighter for him to go in
You're not using it enough... Maybe practise on yourself every so often and let him have a go at you more than once every six months and it won't hurt so bad. Can't even feel it doggy style? I call bullocks complete and utter Bull. I have a vagina and I can feel it no matter how it's going in and trust me it goes in alot more than once every six months. I would die if I had to wait six months. Unless my man was in a war some where but he's not. SO! In short, I hope you're not a man just coming on here to vent about you wife. Because dude that is not right...
i thought that when i had my daughter 6 years ago if anything it made me tighter!!! im having trouble with a new partner whos lets say blessed ive never had this with anyone else in the past tho men usualy like it more if its tight ive tried loads of lube and tried to relax but after its been in a little while its too much for him and he loses his erection
My vagina is tight and my "Boyfriend" sticks his penis in me fast and humps me like there is no tomorrow and it hurts and i do feel as though i tense up but i cant help it he hurts me and i tell him but that doesnt help and doggy style helps alot cause for some reason i cant feel him. He makes me ripe everytime and i mean hes big but ive had sex with him before but i also dont have sex every week its been about 6 months since we last had sex. some one tell me whats wrong with my vag.
i'm 18 almost 19 and me and my bf have been dating for almost a year and i have the same problem,it hurts to get in sometimes but other times hes got in but after awhile the pain is excruciating and i cannot continue i also have never had an orgasm and i want one so bad because i wanna know what it feels like,i jus want to have a normal sex life is that to much to ask for.
it is nice to know im not alone and that there are others out there that have the same issue,i thought i was the only one