Vaginal Tearing during sex

[silentobserver]

I think, but not really sure if this is where I should post this.  But I have some questions that I would like to have answers to.  Recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time.  He is umm kinda big.  And I haven't had it that big before.  Anyway, when we first started there was no problems for entry but it started hurting.  It wasn't too big of a deal.  Well now I have tears...in two or three locations on the outside of my vaginal area.  It hurts to move in anyway including going to the bathroom for obvious reasons since they are cuts.  But I was wondering what I should do?  The pain is unbearable.  Almost like when I had my son and I ended up with four tears.  Thanks.

[BAYCUTIE]

well if you say it was a bit rough and it hurt really bad is because there was no foreplay or a little foreplay u have to make sure theres more foreplay and that u are ready if your mom say that u could be pregnant i dont it could be if it hurts to walk, sleep , sit, pee, stand is prob that you where really dry inside that your ex bf could have tore you really bad but if your mom say u are pregnant you should take a test to be sure but i never heard that it can do that your vagina has to do with it not your ovaries or if you say both hurt then there might be a chance so far on the bleeding its prob that he tore you i get tore all the time hope this helps.

[tear123]

i have had the same problem but i had sex last night but it was with my ex boyfriend and he was do it abit rough and then i said to him stop cause its hurtin then i noticed that i was bleeding very bad but then i noticed i couldnt sleep or i couldnt sit down or stand up but i text my mum and she sed that she will take me to hospital to get it checked out but she never toke me in the end but i have a drs appointment today at 4;50 but then my mum thinks that i could be pregnant but the only thing is i cant do anything cuase its so painful even when i go to the toilet it feels like i am peeing razor blades out i cant even walk probably but im scarred incase i go to my dr and she sends me to the hospital and they say that i havento stay in over night can anyone comment back please ????

[BAYCUTIE]

Yes, it will heal on its own give it a week or 2 or a month on how bad it is make sure to keep it clean and dry down there maybe on why it tore is bacuase when he pulled out it was dry dont worrie every girl gets this

[Blaah002]

Im also.havin this issue & it has been 3 days. Was starting 2 get worryed

[BAYCUTIE]

I have the same problem I get tears all the time my guy is also big. My doctor told me that yeast infections can tear your vagina too. What she told me to do is put 3 to 2 fingurs where the tear is at and push down lightly and if it dosent hurt push harder  if it hurts back off and wait for a week or 2 then do it again if it donsent hurt at all then its healed. If you say that your vagina is buring around the area you might have a yeast infection or you are useing something that your vagina is sensetive to like soap the best kind to use is Dove saop for sensetive skin i wouldnt wash down there all the time but here and there wont hurt so no discharge build up. Other resaon to might to because not enugh foreplay or your vagina to still to dry the best kind for lub is KY jelly sensetive skin or KY vit E hope this helps

[sammistraightedge]

i was having sex with my boyfriend and he pulled out and tried to ram it back in but he ended up tearing the very bottom of my vag it hurts and bleed like crazy will it heal on its own im also 17 and dont want my parents to know iv been having sex so i cant go to the doctor  

[xRaynexx]

I'm in the same boat as you. Me and my boyfriend just tried having sex, and since he is really think I couldn't get him inside me and I started to tear. I've been trying to find home remedies I can do without my mom knowing, and olive oil works as a lubricant so you underwear doesn't rub and irritate it more.