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Vaginal Tearing during sex
I think, but not really sure if this is where I should post this. But I have some questions that I would like to have answers to. Recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. He is umm kinda big. And I haven't had it that big before. Anyway, when we first started there was no problems for entry but it started hurting. It wasn't too big of a deal. Well now I have tears...in two or three locations on the outside of my vaginal area. It hurts to move in anyway including going to the bathroom for obvious reasons since they are cuts. But I was wondering what I should do? The pain is unbearable. Almost like when I had my son and I ended up with four tears. Thanks.
tell your bf that if he wants to pound out a meat hole to get a gay man's butt or masturbate. otherwise, your body is not there for his pleasure and your pain.
when men masturbate they choke the **** out of their cocks and stroke the **** out of it too. and this is how they get off. their penises get desensitized. duh!
when they have sex with their girlfriends they get frustrated because a woman's vaginal muscles cannot grip him as tight as his man hands can. so he pounds the **** out of her. pretends he doesn't know it hurts her, gets off and laughs at how stupid she is. she will blame herself and keep letting him rip up her vagina for years or decades.
women of course go along with all this because they are idiots.
when men masturbate they choke the **** out of their cocks and stroke the **** out of it too. and this is how they get off. their penises get desensitized. duh!
when they have sex with their girlfriends they get frustrated because a woman's vaginal muscles cannot grip him as tight as his man hands can. so he pounds the **** out of her. pretends he doesn't know it hurts her, gets off and laughs at how stupid she is. she will blame herself and keep letting him rip up her vagina for years or decades.
women of course go along with all this because they are idiots.
Vaginal tearing.
Okay I had researched this like CRAZY and have seen a LOT of women with the same issue that I was having. Pretty much everything tore my vagina - it was like paper. If I wiped, I tore myself. If I put in a tampon, I tore myself.
It was painful and the only thing that helped was rubbing vaseline on the cuts until they healed - but they tore again right after.
I started taking rephresh pro-b and have not had a tear since I started taking it! Apparently it was an issue with my ph balance down there - I never had any real issues - no STDs, but I was having an excess of discharge, LOTS of bumps on my cervix, all of which have gone away!
This is the only thing that has ever fixed my issue! My discharge is perfectly normal and I don't tear down there at all.
If you're having this issue, get REPHRESH PRO-B and take it every day! Absolutely did the trick!
Okay I had researched this like CRAZY and have seen a LOT of women with the same issue that I was having. Pretty much everything tore my vagina - it was like paper. If I wiped, I tore myself. If I put in a tampon, I tore myself.
It was painful and the only thing that helped was rubbing vaseline on the cuts until they healed - but they tore again right after.
I started taking rephresh pro-b and have not had a tear since I started taking it! Apparently it was an issue with my ph balance down there - I never had any real issues - no STDs, but I was having an excess of discharge, LOTS of bumps on my cervix, all of which have gone away!
This is the only thing that has ever fixed my issue! My discharge is perfectly normal and I don't tear down there at all.
If you're having this issue, get REPHRESH PRO-B and take it every day! Absolutely did the trick!
I am sorry for your pain and suffering. I am an attractive, petite (5'4") woman in my fifties, in good shape with excellent health. I experienced monogamous, sexual relationships before my eighteen year marriage, and found after my divorce that there are many men who would wish to have a relationship with me. (However, I find it difficult to find a man of integrity, intelligence and sweetness with whom I would like to develop a long-term committed relationship.) Consequently, I have had several monogamous experiences with men over the past ten years (and could have more, if I were so inclined).
Almost all of my sexual experiences throughout my life were fairly positive. Naturally, I preferred some partners over others. The only time when I experienced pain was with two men who were relatively large. My first true love was moderately large and quite long. We learned that his pleasuring me before intercourse made all the difference, lubricating me (I produce ample vaginal discharge via orgasm), preparing my vagina for intercourse, and helping me to desire him more. Therefore, our sex life was nice. All the years in between, including during my marriage, I have had no particular discomfort until recently.
I am now dating a caring man and good lover, but he is extremely large - broad in general and, when erect, long. Without question, his size is exceptional. It so happens that we have hardly engaged in intercourse because he is experiencing erectile dysfunction due to anti-depressants and other psychological causes. However, we have attempted intercourse twice, but he could not maintain an erection. Nonetheless, my experience was that, despite being well lubricated and very prepared for intercourse both mentally and physically, his penis was so incredibly large that I felt incredibly stretched as he entered and perhaps my vagina couldn't fully accommodate the breadth of his penis. For the first time since my first love, I found that my vagina tore and there was considerable discomfort afterward for two or three days, especially upon urinating. If and when he resolves his e.d. issue and if we continue to date, either my vagina and I will adjust or our sex life will be problematic, in which case I am not sure I can continue in this relationship.
Alas, this experience has validated something I'd already discovered - I prefer modest-sized penis. It is more comfortable and pleasurable for me. The medical community may claim that the vagina can accommodate any sized penis, but in my experience, that is untrue.
I hope this is helpful to some of you suffering discomfort during sex due to the size of your partner's penis.
Almost all of my sexual experiences throughout my life were fairly positive. Naturally, I preferred some partners over others. The only time when I experienced pain was with two men who were relatively large. My first true love was moderately large and quite long. We learned that his pleasuring me before intercourse made all the difference, lubricating me (I produce ample vaginal discharge via orgasm), preparing my vagina for intercourse, and helping me to desire him more. Therefore, our sex life was nice. All the years in between, including during my marriage, I have had no particular discomfort until recently.
I am now dating a caring man and good lover, but he is extremely large - broad in general and, when erect, long. Without question, his size is exceptional. It so happens that we have hardly engaged in intercourse because he is experiencing erectile dysfunction due to anti-depressants and other psychological causes. However, we have attempted intercourse twice, but he could not maintain an erection. Nonetheless, my experience was that, despite being well lubricated and very prepared for intercourse both mentally and physically, his penis was so incredibly large that I felt incredibly stretched as he entered and perhaps my vagina couldn't fully accommodate the breadth of his penis. For the first time since my first love, I found that my vagina tore and there was considerable discomfort afterward for two or three days, especially upon urinating. If and when he resolves his e.d. issue and if we continue to date, either my vagina and I will adjust or our sex life will be problematic, in which case I am not sure I can continue in this relationship.
Alas, this experience has validated something I'd already discovered - I prefer modest-sized penis. It is more comfortable and pleasurable for me. The medical community may claim that the vagina can accommodate any sized penis, but in my experience, that is untrue.
I hope this is helpful to some of you suffering discomfort during sex due to the size of your partner's penis.
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