Ugh, I'm sorry to hear this. Yes, little cuts there sting like heck. You have to wait for it to heal (and sometimes it will start to itch as it heals). You can try ibuprofen for pain relief. There is a spray called dermoplast pain relieving spray that I used after birth that takes the sting out, you can try a witch hazel pad for 15 minutes, you can pour warm water at the same time you are urinating, or use a squirt bottle to the area as you go to the bathroom Try to let it air dry at some point during the day like when you go to sleep. And tell your boyfriend to be more gentle as this is not fun. good luck