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Very small vaginal opening/ Tough Hymen: My partner not able to penetrate
Hi,
I have been married since more than a month. Me and my husband are sharing a very good relationship. But, unfortunately we are not able to have a sex. We feel my vaginal opening is too small for the penis to penetrate or the hymen is too tough to break. It is not allowing penis to penetrate inside my vagina and whenever he tries penetrating with a force, it becomes very painful for me. We tried different positions also but it could not solve our problem. Then, he tried fingering also. But, he is able to insert only one finger. If he tries to insert two fingers, the pain becomes unbearable. Can u tell me how do i solve this problem ? Is there any other way to break the hymen ?
I have been married since more than a month. Me and my husband are sharing a very good relationship. But, unfortunately we are not able to have a sex. We feel my vaginal opening is too small for the penis to penetrate or the hymen is too tough to break. It is not allowing penis to penetrate inside my vagina and whenever he tries penetrating with a force, it becomes very painful for me. We tried different positions also but it could not solve our problem. Then, he tried fingering also. But, he is able to insert only one finger. If he tries to insert two fingers, the pain becomes unbearable. Can u tell me how do i solve this problem ? Is there any other way to break the hymen ?
We have not tried using Lubricants. I think we should try that now.
Thanks for your help. Hope this works for us.
Thanks for your help. Hope this works for us.
I don't think it's your hymen. Almost all the time, a women has already broken the hymen before she's ever had sexual intercourse. By the time a girl reaches school-age, the hymen is thin and delicate. Most people believe that the hymen is similar to a drum skin and is thick. As for sex, do you use any lubricants? Not all women can produce the fluid needed to make insertion easy. If you don't, try those and go slow. It may help.
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