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Want to get Pregnant ,fiance in jail...Help??????
Hi , i am 25 years old and have been with my fiance for many years. He has been in jail for a year and isn't getting out for another year. I miss him dearly and want to have his baby. Our lawyer can meet with him and bring me mail, food etc from him. I am having him masturbate into a clean,sterile container ,put the lid on it and put it in an envelope for the lawyer to give to me immediately I was planning on then putting the sperm within the hour of course into my vagina and praying for the best. Will this work??? Do you know any other ways we could do this???/Please help with some advice.....How long will it last? How do I get the sperm inside me????/HElp????
i posted my post a long time ago. therefore i must have said something that hit a nerve. thats good. makes you think. and YES, we do have a sex offender that lives less than a mile from our home (.05 miles from a catholic school) aint life grand? you cannot get rid of them but you can see to it that your life is sound, consistant, relaxed, and free from harm. i HOPE you get there before baby does. dont worry, this is my last post. hope you find happiness.
When you for advice from a large group of people, you have to be prepared that some people aren't going to say what you want to hear.
And Stressed, 25 wasn't that long ago for me either :) At the time I thought it was a rough age. The beauty is that you get to look back a few years down the road, and realize it is not as bad as you thought it was. And granted, you've lived more since you were 16 then most people I know that are 30. :) Good luck to you, and your DH.
And Stressed, 25 wasn't that long ago for me either :) At the time I thought it was a rough age. The beauty is that you get to look back a few years down the road, and realize it is not as bad as you thought it was. And granted, you've lived more since you were 16 then most people I know that are 30. :) Good luck to you, and your DH.
Ocean3....Really there are quite a bit of innocent people in jail...and for the record there are sex offenders EVERYWHERE...theres probably one living right next door to you Ocean3 .....does that make you a bad person... no....judging people and their circumstances does though.....Obviously I haven't wrote the entire situation but to make a long story short he is being convicted for protecting me..plain and simple..thats how the Southern states do things...money money money.I don't have any friends...and my family is abusive....These next 6-8 months alone is scaring me and I miss him sooo much... I want to feel a part of him inside me every day...that is comforting.....For the record if a man masturbates in a sterile cup it must be brought to the clinic and tested within an HOUR....and no obviously the lawyer doesn't know.....thanks for the advice ladies you have given me something to think about.....but to all the rude and ignorant ...people listen more if your polite versus judgemental.
Are you afraid that you are losing him, is this why you want to have his baby so desperatley?
Just in my own personal experience, I couldn't imagine going through a pregnancy and then a labor and delivery by myself, let alone the first 8 weeks of the baby's life without the support of my significant other.
It's terrible to miss someone and not be able to be with them, but enjoy the time you'll have with your boyfriend once he gets out of prision, and create your baby out of love. Go through all the ups and downs of pregnancy with him at your side.
It's hard to hear, but this will all make more sense to you down the road, and you may look back at this desire and be thankful it didn't come true.
Just in my own personal experience, I couldn't imagine going through a pregnancy and then a labor and delivery by myself, let alone the first 8 weeks of the baby's life without the support of my significant other.
It's terrible to miss someone and not be able to be with them, but enjoy the time you'll have with your boyfriend once he gets out of prision, and create your baby out of love. Go through all the ups and downs of pregnancy with him at your side.
It's hard to hear, but this will all make more sense to you down the road, and you may look back at this desire and be thankful it didn't come true.
2 year prison sentence does not make sense when he was as you stated protecting you. It does not seem possible that the sperm would even reach you in an animated state. It would already be dead or dying. Wait until he is out of prison in another year and make sure at that time when you are reconnected that he is still the same man you love and the same man that you want to be father to your child. You are young and have time to become a Mother. Do it our of love and intamcy not with old sperm and a turkey baster.
Thanks, Andi for the kind words.
Ticked, hope you have a great day! Peace and love! Sticky happy baby dust!
Ticked, hope you have a great day! Peace and love! Sticky happy baby dust!
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