My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. I am 21 and he is 25. Since we have been together, everything has been great! I have never doubted anything by any means and I am sure he hasn't himself. We have talked about moving in and a future together, etc, etc. A few weeks ago, he openly told me that he watches girls on those webcam sites while masturbating. I told him I didn't really like the thought of it, but that was that, and the conversation ended. Last week I was at his house in the shower, and when I came out he was on the computer and I walked in again to see him on this website watching a girl on her webcam. He immediately shut it down like he was embarassed, but I told him to open it again so I can see exactly what it is (plus I also wanted to put him in his place!!!!). We have a great sex life together, and we have watched porn together before as well. However; I just feel like watching girls on webcams is a much more personal thing, and who knows to what it could lead to next? Am I overreacting? Is this considered "cheating"? Does anyone think it can lead to more?
Any help or advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks!