Who is the father?

[mom2b1986]

I had sex with two men. One on nov 30th 2010 which was protected and he did ejaculated in me in the condom. The 2nd was on Dec 5th 2010 which was not protected but not sure if he pulled out or not. My first day of last period was nov 22 and my doc says im due on aug 29th 2011. I am confused on days I ovulate so thtat couldnt help me but i have a 4 day period almost every month. Any answers or suggestions would be great thanks...

[BoriTex]

I think that it is more possible that the second one is the father.

[fission]

I may be the dull gal in the bunch here, but if you had protected sex with guy 1 and unprotected with guy 2, is the confusion coming from your due date? Because docs often go by the date of your last period until you have your sonograms. Did the condom break?

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like the doctor simply went from the first day of your last period, which gives you the August 29 due date on the conception calculator I used.  On a person with normal ovulation, the conception period would be December 2-10 for that due date and first day of LMP.  Problem is, if the November 30 guy's sperm reached you, it could certainly live for a few days in your system, and then it would be within the December 2-10 window, along with the other guy.  So you're down to whether you think the first guy's condom was effective or the second guy came or not.  (You're not sure if he pulled out?  Oh, dear.)  

Anyway, I'm sorry but it's too close to call, since both guys were within five days all within the fertile range for that month.  You're going to need a DNA test when the baby is born.  I'm sorry you're in this situation.