Thank you for your responses. Another factor to throw into the mix is that I am having a boy. Have you ever heard that male sperm travel and die off quicker than female sperm? I think that if I were to have gotten pregnant by guy 1, there would be good chance for the baby to be a girl (unless I literally ovulated right away after my period). I really think it is safe to say that guy 2 is my baby's father. If I have doubts later on, I do like the idea of maybe having guy 1 take a test just to rule him out and not even have to tell guy 2 about it. I know it sounds dishonest, but it is such an embarrassing situation and would be so much more stressful for everyone involved if I confessed that there may uncertainty regarding the paternity of the child.
its very possible that guy 2 is but guy number one never ejaculated inside you but pre-*** is more potent then regular ejaculation. but from my stand point (not a doctor,almost a nurse) its more then likely #2
Sure, guy 2 is more likely because of when you would have possibly ovulated and the lack of ejaculation, but the consequences of being wrong about this would be pretty serious. Sperm can live a long time in a woman's system, and sometimes women ovulate early. If guy 1 had sperm in his pre-ejaculate and you did ovulate early (some women ovulate on day 8 of their cycle), it could be him. If you never do a DNA test, you will do a disservice to yourself, your child and both guys. Is there any way to do a test with guy 1 after the baby is born, just to rule him out? (Or is he either entirely gone from your life or so close into it that he would tell guy 2?)