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am i stll a virgin???

i didn't have sex in my life. l was saving my self to the one i love and to be my husband.
lately my fiance and i played with eachother (sexually) but no sex. at the end he wanted to put his penis between my thighs but by a mistake it entered my vigina "not all of it" then i felt hurt in me and when i put my hand in my vigina a saw a tiny little amount of blood came out of my vigina . it was so little.
i'm afraid that he broke my virginty.
Am i still vergin or not???
and if that blood was not my heymen's, what would it came from????
please i really need a proffisional help right away.

thanks
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No, you are NOT a virgin.  

Your finance penetrated your vagina - the fact that "not all of it" penetrated you is absolutely irrelevant.  Penetration (no matter whether unintentional, only for a short period of time, or  only partially) is considered coitus, and coitus is considered sexual intercourse.  Someone that has engaged in sexual intercourse is NOT a virgin.
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hi, i am not a doctor, but i would say that the penetration could have broken your heiman.      If i were you, i would still consider myself a virgin cause you have not had actual intercourse.  Also, when i lost my virginity i had a lot more blood than just a drop.  It didnt flow or anything like a period, but it was more than a drop.  or, maybe he just stretched you a bit and that caused the drop of blood.  again, i am not a doctor...just telling you what i know from my own experience.  hope this helps.  
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