confusion after sex...please help!

[Minx2006]

Hiya, for the past 10 months or so me and my partner have been trying to conieve and havent yet managed which is really upsetting as we love each other so much and are very close and wish to start a family together but we are very concerned at the moment because after sex i loose a liquid from the vaginal area that is ometimes a ll cloudy or sometimes clear. am i not concieving because my partners sperm is falling out of me and not travelling towrds the egg. i have tried the legs up against the wall for ten minutes idea and when i do this only a lil amount of liquid falls out, but after sex i lie in bed for ten minutes and dont move but still i lose the liquid substance from my vaginal area? what is it? and is it normal? is this why i aint concieving? please help we really need some gud advice and can you offer any tips or positions to help concieve? advice will be much appreciated. thankyou x

[lildaisy]

im in kind of the same situation that we are trying to concieve too.  i recently just posted about this too for some advice.  you can check mine because a couple people posted about mine.  they said to try doggystyle.  which i did and a lot less does come out.  Good luck

[rayann]

there is a site called mymonthlycycles that allows you to track your cycle so you can keep track of the best times to coneive etc.

other than that and legs up i dont know !
good luck

[dalrs]

i have friends that have tried for a baby and they reckon that the best way to do it is to have a pillow under your bottom ,they all fall pregnant but everyone is different. just remember if you have sex and got out of bed soon after gravity will take hold. i suggest trying everything once and just see what  you feel comfortable with love. get luck and best wishes.