Pregnat?

[Mo208]

I am newly sexually active with only one man. We have sex fairly often, but since I am extremely paranoid we are very safe. I was on the pill and we used condoms as well. Now, we just use condoms. About a three weeks to a month ago, I saw some fluid leak out of the condom and was scared so I took an emergency contraception pill. Two weeks after I took the pill, I got what seemed to be a period except much shorter. Now, about a week after finishing that period, I have had sex about 4 times in the last week. I have used a condom everytime and checked them afterwards. My boyfriend told me that a couple nights ago one broke but he felt it break and pulled out right away and changed it. He also said that he was nowhere near cumming yet so it was clean. This morning, after having sex late last night, I have menstural like cramps which I heard can happen along with implantation. I don't know what to do and am absolutely terrified that I might be pregant because it is far too early for my period. Please help!

[vmvnpv]

I highly doubt you're pregnant.

[Daniel82]

First...

your bf doesn't have to come inside you to get you pregnant, pre-seminal fluid can contain enough sperm to do that... so be careful, a broken condom is never a good thing if you are not prepared to have a baby or fear for STDs.

Second...

Menstruation stops if you are pregnant (except in some extremely rare cases) what you feel could be a side effect of the pill you're taking.

Finally...

If you wanna be sure... get tested, but I don't think you are pregnant.

[dantheman1577]

i stopped having sex at the middle of the period cycle, say 4 weeks every cycle, i have sex without a condom 7 days after period and 7 days before period is due.  condom is on every other time... as to my information given, its is impossible to fall pregnant so close to your period.  but i want you to google this as the days may be slightly different..

but thats what i do anyway, no contraceptive at all no side affects, nothing..  just no sex during the centre of the cycle....easy.. and no pregnancy. we have 2 kids that we wanted, and no suprises.

i think your bit nuts having sex with just a condom and without contraceptive, if you dont really want to fall pregnant...

theres nothing more greater feeling to a guy than to come in their partner...find out this information about the timing of the cycle. it will be definately a benefit to you.

cya

[slow_healer]

The cramps could very well be side effects from the ECP. The ECPs deliver a very potent dose of hormones to ensure that pregnancy does not happen (which is why it's recommended as a backup form of birth control - it's very hard on your body). How long has it been since you stopped taking the pill? The cramps and irregular bleeding could also be a side effect from that - as your body adjusts to a new schedule of hormones (instead of a pill-regulated dictated schedule).

Try a home pregnancy test if you're still paranoid about being pregnant, and wait to see if any other symptoms develop. "Implantation cramping" sounds like a myth to scare people about pregnancy (to me, anyways, but I haven't been pregnant) - anyone feel free to demonstrate otherwise.