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hey!!! well nbdy answered my question plz anybody help amd really scared were gonna have sex for the first time this saturday im so scared of the pain my body is so sensitive i cant handle such pain !!! plzz if anyone has tips about reducing the pain or if there is any pills tht could turn me on to the max.and i wouldnt feel anything plzz get back to me
hey no hes not convincing me anything lol we have our protections and i know my bf he didnt push me to do anything he just told me dont rush if your not ready its ok i can wait!! but the thing is that i wanna give it to him cz i want my first time to be with him i dont wanna lose it to another guy because when i do it with my bf i know who im doin it with and no matter what we can manage for the future cz i know hes never gonna walk out on me hes always gonna be there nd trust me i know!! but the thing is is it as painful as everyone think?im so sensitive to pain and i cant handle it but is it that much???and does it have any side effects after? i dont want anybody noticing changes on me r smthn lol plzz help
Ok first of all, take a big deep breath.....now ask yourself...WHY are you willing to have sex with someone if you are so scared? I already know the answer.....Because you don't want to!
No pills, magic lotions, or anything else is going to make it better for your first time.
It should be special, not just coz you have a date planned.
Secondly, have you thought about birth control..don't let him BS you into thinking you can't get preggo the first time! Has he been with anyone else? Don't believe it!
My next question is why? Why do you want to lose your virginity on Saturday? Why now? Why not wait?
Hate to be an old stick in the mud, but you need to look at the long term effects of your decision first, you won't be able to avoid the pain. Most virgin females go through that. It's a long term child or sexually transmitted disease I am worried about for you.
No pills, magic lotions, or anything else is going to make it better for your first time.
It should be special, not just coz you have a date planned.
Secondly, have you thought about birth control..don't let him BS you into thinking you can't get preggo the first time! Has he been with anyone else? Don't believe it!
My next question is why? Why do you want to lose your virginity on Saturday? Why now? Why not wait?
Hate to be an old stick in the mud, but you need to look at the long term effects of your decision first, you won't be able to avoid the pain. Most virgin females go through that. It's a long term child or sexually transmitted disease I am worried about for you.
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