help me..im 30 weeks pregnant and not sure who the father is

[Mariaguz]

..im 30 weeeks pregnant my due date is may 8 2010...my last period was july 31 2009..my husband and i were trying to convieve i bought an ovulation kit and said i was ovulating on aug .11 so we tryed every 2 day until the aug.16 and on the  aug .17 i had sex with my ex but he did not ejaculate inside and on aug 30 and didnt ejaculate either .
on september 3 my pregnancy test was positive..

im positive its my husbands but i still worry

[Lara1978]

Hi Maria,

Any updates on what happened. I have been very touched by this story as I am in a similar situation, I took an ovulation test on a sunday morning which was positive me and my husband had sex on the saturday, sunday monday and tuesday as we were actively trying and then on thursday afternoon 95 hours after i took the ovulation test, i was attacked by a stranger. It was only for about a minute or so as i managed to fight him off, and there was 100per cent no ejaculation but i am so scared, as i have read conflicting views on whether or not you can get pregnant fom pre-ejaculatory fluid. Although I know ts unlikely i also knw its not impossible i am so scaed, and cannot talk to anyone about this. Please let me know if it was you're husbands baby. from what you have said i am pretty damm sure it was.

[Mariaguz]

yes...and i took the ovulation test 2 days after that an it said i wasnt ovulating..so it is my husband...thanks again..this whole havent been able to have a happy one..stressed and scared..but i have faith and i know this is my husbands baby

[supergirley]

you had sex with your ex on the 17?  It does sound to me that it would most likely be your husbands. when you get a positive OPK test it is usually with in 24 hours of the egg actually getting released. because you get a spike in your levels before you actually ovulate causing the +.

[Mariaguz]

Things just happen i dont know why i did that..im still in schock that i did that..but i cant turn back time..i know its my husbands..every time we had sex he ejaculated so his sperm was still in me when i had sex with my ex...and my ex didnt ejaculate ..i still worry ..
thanks ..its reassuring when u here it from someone else

[25nmumof1]

hi, thats some pickle your in i have to ask thou if you were trying for a baby with your husband why did you sleep with your ex?id imagine its your husband since youovulated aug 11 and the egg would have been dead by 17 but since he didnt ejaculate its unlikely