I agree with diva lorri. That's a good way of becoming a single parent - bc he'll know that you had a purposeful hand in your becoming pregnant. Talk about it extensively, make a list of pros perhaps. Do not bombard him with it, or nag him about it, like if you are to pass by a baby item in the store and comment on its cuteness. Talk sensibly and not in a baby-desperate tone. Maybe ask him when he'd be ready to be a father..? If the answer is never.. then you may have to find another love =<. Maybe he's just waiting until you guys are officially married?
strongly wouldnt advise getting pregnant if your boyfriend doesnt. itl only end in trouble. just look at the info around. as for the condom bit... they arent totally safe but chances are very slim with one. actually chances are super slim every month you try to conceive even in the best of circumstances.