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how to bact to virgin?

. i infortunately lost my virginty with my bf 2 years back. we had sex  more than 20 times. till then i havent done anything like that. can any1 just suggest what should i do. i am marrying in a very religious family next year
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134578 tn?1693250592
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A hundred years ago and more, a woman would fake it by causing herself to bleed on the wedding night with a pin.  I'm not sure it's worth doing that, but some cultures are more harsh than others to women who are not virgins.
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973741 tn?1342342773
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Hi there.  Well, you are not a virgin hon.  You've had sex at least 20 times.  

If you are asking how you can 'fake' being a virgin with your new husband.  Well, you don't have to divulge/tell your past.  That is your private business.  Just don't share.  I wouldn't lie about it.  But I also wouldn't talk about it period.  Not every woman bleeds upon first intercourse.  The other thing you can do, there is a surgery called hymenoplasty.  This restores the hymen.  You aren't a virgin again but it does aid in faking it.  

good luck
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