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i'm pregnent, please help!!!
i'm a 21 year old, and just found out today that i'm pregnent via pragnency kit.i've not been feeling quite well for this pass one week. i've had bile, and stomac discomfort, and i have no appitite in consuming food. i haven't old anyone about it yet, and i don't plan to. i've missed my menstrual for a month now. as i'm in malaysia, i need help from you, without consulting a doctor. is there anything that i can do to stop all this from happening? or is there any medicine for me to consume to flush out my mensis?? please help.....
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Sue,
Just don't make a decision to hastily. Think it through. Would you consider talking to someone trained in helping someone in your situation? What part of Malaysia are you from? I'll give you some names and contact information.
Just don't make a decision to hastily. Think it through. Would you consider talking to someone trained in helping someone in your situation? What part of Malaysia are you from? I'll give you some names and contact information.
Sue, You can't stop it from happening. That time has past. It has already happened. Please DO NOT consume something in an attempt to rid yourself of an unwanted pregnancy. You could kill yourself as well. There has to be an answer for you that does not include destroying a life.
blah? Where is the right place? When is the right time to try to save a life? And yes she is trying to abort as she requsted info on meds she could consume to start her menses.. Abortion is NEVER the answer. I don't care where you are and what your circumstances, a life is a life! The time for choices is before you lay down.
blah? Where is the right place? When is the right time to try to save a life? And yes she is trying to abort as she requsted info on meds she could consume to start her menses.. Abortion is NEVER the answer. I don't care where you are and what your circumstances, a life is a life! The time for choices is before you lay down.
"I don't care where you are and what your circumstances, a life is a life!"
Like I said, in some places, a girl can be killed for being pregnant. Is the mother's life not worthy of consideration?Please try and understand some of the differences in cultures before saying something like that.
"The time for choices is before you lay down"
The person I know was raped. By a family member. No choice there.
Again, I'm not saying I'm pro-abortion, but that is a choice SHE has to make; without being judged. Issues like this are very sensitive. This is supposed to be a medical forum, a place for moral support and some kind of objectivity, not criticism or judgement.
Sue, as JoAnnaRF said, please don't take anything in the hope it will get rid of the foetus if you are pregnant. Like itsme25 advised, do think the matter through very carefully. I hope there is someone you can confide in, and a doctor who will be discrete and handle the matter with sensitivity whether you decide to keep the baby or not.
Best,
Blah?
Like I said, in some places, a girl can be killed for being pregnant. Is the mother's life not worthy of consideration?Please try and understand some of the differences in cultures before saying something like that.
"The time for choices is before you lay down"
The person I know was raped. By a family member. No choice there.
Again, I'm not saying I'm pro-abortion, but that is a choice SHE has to make; without being judged. Issues like this are very sensitive. This is supposed to be a medical forum, a place for moral support and some kind of objectivity, not criticism or judgement.
Sue, as JoAnnaRF said, please don't take anything in the hope it will get rid of the foetus if you are pregnant. Like itsme25 advised, do think the matter through very carefully. I hope there is someone you can confide in, and a doctor who will be discrete and handle the matter with sensitivity whether you decide to keep the baby or not.
Best,
Blah?
kjsk>>Great research and fast too! I just hope that she doesn't think some of us are pushing too hard, just passionate. It is a sensitive subject and difficult to leave out your personal views, so I hope I didn't offend anyone, that was not my intention. I just hope she doesn't take matters into her own hands and hurt herself.
thanks. there was more info. but i tried to get the pieces that we are all talking about.i was interested in knowing what malaysias beliefs about abortion were and what it is like there. i dont know where sue "went"? i know that she must be going through a lot right now and most likely not thinking about this forum but she took the time to post looking for our help so i would think she'd check back with us. i wish she would fill us in. this is a VERY touchy topic with many different beliefs and can get heated quickly. i would like to try to help her if she would let us.
Ok, to all you people on here that have asked this girl why she wasn't using protection, shut up. You are not helping her to deal with this if you are only trying to make her feel bad. I'm sure she realizes the seriousness of the matter, and she knows how she got here.Back off!
Now, to you, Sue, I have been there. I was 17 when I got pregnant, and I was scared, too. If you took an at-home preganacy test, you are AT LEAST 6 weeks along, because at home tests pick up on a particular hormone that is produced during pregnancy,and it is hard to detect this hormone if you are under 6 weeks pregnant. Secondly, I know this is hard, but you have got to tell someone about your pregnancy. It is so important that you get medical help. Maybe you could start with someone you trust well. I told my best friend before anyone. It took me a month to tell my parents. They told me if I didn't have an abortion, they would kick me out of the house. So, they kicked me out.They were mad for awhile, but they got over it and now, they love my sone so much that they get upset if they don't get to see him for a few days. I don't know about the relationship you have with the father, but when I told my boyfriend, he was excited. Abortion for me was not an alternative. My mother had an appointment scheduled for me to have one, and when I thought about what exactly I would be doing, I told her no. I was young, scared, and had the support of only one person, but know, when my son comes to me and Mommy, I love you, I know I made the right decision. If you cannot keep this child, I would reccomend adoption. There are open adoption agencies here in the United States, and they will let you pick your baby's family. Also, they will let you keep in contact with your child, if you want to. Also, in some instances, they will pay for your medical care. Which, by the way, you shouls start feeling better in about 6 weeks. That will be the start of your second trimester, and most of the sickness will pass by then. Other symptoms: breast tenderness,sensitivity to some foods and smells, etc. Talk to a doctor for more information. Good luck!
Now, to you, Sue, I have been there. I was 17 when I got pregnant, and I was scared, too. If you took an at-home preganacy test, you are AT LEAST 6 weeks along, because at home tests pick up on a particular hormone that is produced during pregnancy,and it is hard to detect this hormone if you are under 6 weeks pregnant. Secondly, I know this is hard, but you have got to tell someone about your pregnancy. It is so important that you get medical help. Maybe you could start with someone you trust well. I told my best friend before anyone. It took me a month to tell my parents. They told me if I didn't have an abortion, they would kick me out of the house. So, they kicked me out.They were mad for awhile, but they got over it and now, they love my sone so much that they get upset if they don't get to see him for a few days. I don't know about the relationship you have with the father, but when I told my boyfriend, he was excited. Abortion for me was not an alternative. My mother had an appointment scheduled for me to have one, and when I thought about what exactly I would be doing, I told her no. I was young, scared, and had the support of only one person, but know, when my son comes to me and Mommy, I love you, I know I made the right decision. If you cannot keep this child, I would reccomend adoption. There are open adoption agencies here in the United States, and they will let you pick your baby's family. Also, they will let you keep in contact with your child, if you want to. Also, in some instances, they will pay for your medical care. Which, by the way, you shouls start feeling better in about 6 weeks. That will be the start of your second trimester, and most of the sickness will pass by then. Other symptoms: breast tenderness,sensitivity to some foods and smells, etc. Talk to a doctor for more information. Good luck!
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