hi vannah i experience also like your experiencing now,july 26 the left side of my vigina was very itch i didnt know its going to be a lamp coz its my first time so i continue scratching, after 5 days it swell and very painful really painful,so i did hot compress for 5-10 min. then i took medicine anti biotics,i continue doing that,after two days it popped out,its kinda working until now i' just waiting for it go back normal. my problem is that what came out is blood and until now, can somebody help coz its like i have a mens, i dont know coz i am waiting for my mens also, its kinda confusing which is which? help pleass.thanks
It sounds like either an infected Bartholin's gland or Skene's gland. Clysta's advice is good, since the best home treatment is to soak in a hot bath and hope it drains. It's not uncommon to have to go to the doctor to have them drained. Good luck.
Honestly, I'm unclear what it could be. I've never personally had this happen to me. I would assume it be due to the sexual activity--possibility an infection of some kind. Try taking a warm bath with NO bubbles or soaps in the water of any kind. It might also help to try applying heat to the area. If it doesn't clear up soon, I would definitely speak to your parents about seeing a doctor.
I should also mention, that regardless of how many partners you've had you can still get an STD--though in this case I doubt that's the problem. In the future, tell your partner to be more gentle about it, lest he cause more pain and damage down there.