my dear monster in law!!!!!/open forum

[islandprincess]

hey my lovely darlings.....i got a dumb a$$ explaintion as to why my fiance & i haven't conceived......his mother said that i'm not horny enough.....hummmm now when i first heard it i was trully pissed but now as i'm telling you it really is hilarious....lol feel free to laugh at my dumb A$$ mother in law....she's just in denial that her son could be the problem.... she went on as to say that women who are always are horny or (freaky for sex all the time) tend to get  haha ha pregnant ha ha ha...we have a chinese holiday tomorrow & i don't want to face her b/cuz i know myself & i would want to laugh at her....& that wouldn't be very nice..... i have heard alot of cr--p but this is defently the worst....It just goes to show how she really loves me....she has been making stupid comments about me alot in a joking way & i would always try to avoid being mean to her b/cuz he's a mama's boy, & i want to keep my respect for her....but slowly i'm getting to dislike her.... & i don't want to be that way....I know we had a monster -in-law thread already but i just wanted to share that joke with you...oh yeah my fiance is finally getting the b@lls to go to the dr....the time when i'm  trying not to  think about TTC, but if he wants to i'm not going to stop him....feel free to comment or use this as a open forum

love prince$$:)

[luv_babies]

I'm sorry, I'm so naive. : (

[islandprincess]

that's great....but they always want you to be their slave lol...you really told her that???...lol how did she take it...????

i get along with her just she makes stupid statments trying to make me look bad...but she's not as bad as Raymonds mom(everybody loves raymond)...lol


ps how did situation with your daughter go??? i didn't get to follow up on you with that...

[Sunshine912]

I love my mother-in-law to death but don't get me wrong. We have had our differences. My husband and I are going on about 13 years of knowing each other but it always hasn't been a sweet ride with her. She used to hate me. my husband's sister at one time, wished me dead. My own father-in-law asked me when I was going to leave his son because he did not want me around. It came down to a cultural thing. My heritage is Irish and Scot but we live in the United States. His family is from El Salvador and they have plenty of money. My husband had an arranged marriage and when he finished college, their family's plan was to return back to their country. I came into the picture and ruined their happy plans. I overheardmy mother-in-law on the phone breaking the BAD news to the other girl in El Salvador. They had a belief that white Americans are lazy and that the women ran around on the husbands and left them. I had to prove to the that I was a good woman and wife and it took this long to do it. My mother-in-law told me after my 2nd and 3rd baby to have sex as soon as possible right after the baby was born because my husband will find another woman. My husband is not like that. It turned out good finally with his family.

[Sliga]

lol! I just your post island princess I can't believe she would say something like that! it can be so hard trying to conceieve and that obviusly does not help! =/  me and my bf have been together for almost 2 yrs and his mom loved me to death but this makes me wonder she might change when we get married yikes!!!! she made a comment once that bothered me silly though! I have a ferret and treat him like my own child! has his toys and I say well I have no kids I should spoil my pets! he's got toys and all...she walked into our "new" home and saw all the pets things and she said "hon don't you think you're overdoing it a bit too much with tihs pets?" >=(  silly I know but it bothered me! grrrrrr I have no kids and this are my babies! and even when I do they'll still be my babies!!!!!!

[luv_babies]

wow! I can't imagine going through all that!

[islandprincess]

oh damn that really wasn't nice of her...i bet you when you get married & finally get pg she'll love you with all her might....They(my inlaws) did the same to the other sister in laws, & after they got pg they keep asking about them....& what the hell with me right...lol...so that's why they're pressuring us so much.....:)