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my labia minora doesnt look normal!

I'm thirteen years old, and i think my vagina looks really gross! the color is dark, and more importantly, my labia minora is.. loose and one of it seems bigger than it should be. i dont know if thats normal! and i dont think i should be worrying about my vagina being saggy at this age! :(
my boyfriend has been dropping a bunch of hints about wanting to touch me there. its not like i dont want him to, but im so scared that he will think it looks/feels gross. what should i do??
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im 13 years old... my labia is loose and im very self conciouse about it im afraid to were a bikini around people because im afraid they will think i havent shaved or something is wrong with me and make fun of me i dont know what to tell people when they look at me weird down there i shouldnt have two have this thought in my heaad im going to 8th grade im supposed two have so much fun this summer cause i go to the pool everyday but im really self conciouse of my area does anybody have any advice?
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i'm sure you are just fine. i agree with annie though. don't go there yet you'll be happy about it later :)
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yeah i guess your right.  and i went on Better Dodson's website . i have to pay 20 dollars to see the pictures..
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Sounds like your labia are pretty normal.  Not that I'm saying it's time to let a guy touch you there ... at 13, I wouldn't go that route.  If you want to get a look at normal labia, see Betty Dodson's website.  She has a gallery of drawings of normal labia.
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