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My inner labia is swollen, why?
I'm 14 years old. My boyfriend and I have been having sex almost everyday for the past 7 months. We use Trojan Spermicidal Condoms. We have been using those since we started, so i'm not allergic to them. Well, i just got off my period so I didn't have sex for about a week, but we do that every time i'm on it, well last night I wasn't so much in the mood, and it was hurting almost the whole time. Before He put the condom on we just did it a few times without it, but we always do that. Anyway, After an hour of well, "rough" sex i felt really strange, it was immediately after, I looked down and i noticed my inner Labia was swollen! and it's only on the right side. My left is perfectly fine. It's really scary, especially since my parents don't know we have sex and i don't know if i should tell them so i can see a doctor. Will it go away? Is the skin being raw perfectly normal? Will it happen again? Please someone help me. I've looked up everywhere on this and no one seems to have the same story as me. Also, i even bled, I was off my period but yet there was still blood on the sheets. When will it go away and what can i do to make it go away quicker. It's very embarrassing and hard to walk. It feels like it was my first time all over again.
I can't really give too much advice, than to just give it time. But i can advise that you don't have sex without a condom. You don't want to contract an STD, or become pregnant. Even if your boyfriend swears he is clean, there is always that chance. Good luck with the problem, though!
Sorry, that's all the advise I can give you. If you feel that you are that worried then you should tell her. Good Luck and be careful.
Let me rephrase that, My mom knows I've had sex before just not with the person im dating currently.
Thank you, and yes i know i'm young, my mother knows I've had sex before, i just don't want to tell her about this. I've tried ice cubes, it just made it worse.
Wow, you're really young to be having sex. But i'm sure you already know that and that you arent here to get lectured. But from what I could tell, the rough sex and constant sex is what is giving you the swollen lips. I just find it a little strange that it is just one lip and not both. Plus rough sex can cause you to bleed and it can also make you hurt inside for a while. The times that you have sex without a condom is very bad unless you want to be a mommy like the rest of us but at 14. The best way to feel better is to sit or lay down as long as possible throughout the day and when you are alone you can put cold wash rags against the swelling to help it go down. if you can handle ice cubes that would be better. One last thing=== if you feel old enough for sex, you have to also feel grown up enough to deal with the consequences--this includes telling your mom when something goes wrong. I hope you feel better and if you dont in 1 day or 2 you must must must tell your mom.
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