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painful sex
When I am having sexual intercourse with my partner, sometimes it can really hurt.
I also suffer from Vaginal Discharge at all times and when he releases his sperm inside me, straight after sex, I feel like i need the toilet and all his sperm comes out into the toilet.
This is really worrying me as I fear I may not be able to have children.
Please help!
I also suffer from Vaginal Discharge at all times and when he releases his sperm inside me, straight after sex, I feel like i need the toilet and all his sperm comes out into the toilet.
This is really worrying me as I fear I may not be able to have children.
Please help!
i think you should see a doc, you are describing what could be Endometriosis, which results in painful sex and can also have a constant white discharge, my wife suffers from this disorder.
Well i would say we have been trying over a year now.
i have no idea when im actually ovulating. Im not married yet you see and im still only young so its not something i have ever really thought about until things got serious with my partner.
i have no idea when im actually ovulating. Im not married yet you see and im still only young so its not something i have ever really thought about until things got serious with my partner.
thanks girls! youve been a great help! i really thought it was not normal an it was something wrong with me.
do you think a trip to the doctor is needed for my heavy discharge though? like i say, its not a funny colour an does hurt or smell or itch but can be quite uncomfortable!
do you think a trip to the doctor is needed for my heavy discharge though? like i say, its not a funny colour an does hurt or smell or itch but can be quite uncomfortable!
It runs out. I know the pain. I tell my hubby he's hitting the wall. I could jump right out of the bed (or where ever) when he hits it. It does hurt.
yeah, i think he just gets carried away an i have to tell him to go easy. most of the time its ok an i dont bleed or anything. it is a little sore afterwards though for a few hours. is that normal?
It is normal for "all" the semen to come out. It's not a measurable amount, but what goes up, must come down.
Monkeyflower described it best. The sperm swim...even though the semen leaves your body.
Don't worry.
Lucy--I'm cracking up, because I scoot to my husband's side of the bed, too!! Only, I do it because I used to have to sleep on "the spot" and now I've decided that its his turn! LOL.
It used to be just a subtle thing, but after 10 years of marriage, I just make a really quick, obvious move over to his side!!
Cracks me up, and he doesn't seem to mind, either, :)
Monkeyflower described it best. The sperm swim...even though the semen leaves your body.
Don't worry.
Lucy--I'm cracking up, because I scoot to my husband's side of the bed, too!! Only, I do it because I used to have to sleep on "the spot" and now I've decided that its his turn! LOL.
It used to be just a subtle thing, but after 10 years of marriage, I just make a really quick, obvious move over to his side!!
Cracks me up, and he doesn't seem to mind, either, :)
pretty much all of it comes out. When u have the pain tell your hubby he's tooo big. It will make him feel good and he will be easier next time. I think it's normal
thanks for the advice guys. youve really helped.
the discharge is just a normal whitish colour but can sometimes be quite heavy. its not itchy or irritating but is uncomfortable an can put me off having sex.
there is always a lot of semen that runs out, feels like the whole lot. is there anything that can be done to reduce the amount?
im always fully aroused before intercourse but i have been tense also due to the above matters which i think has made it more painful.
the discharge is just a normal whitish colour but can sometimes be quite heavy. its not itchy or irritating but is uncomfortable an can put me off having sex.
there is always a lot of semen that runs out, feels like the whole lot. is there anything that can be done to reduce the amount?
im always fully aroused before intercourse but i have been tense also due to the above matters which i think has made it more painful.
oh no, i'm not getting the wet spot anymore. He tries to scoot on my side, but I can overpower him at that time. I feel like if I feel yucky after, he should too. i have my tubes tied so we don't use anything.
u have a discharge when u r not doing it? so much a day is normal ,I think. How much are u talking about? u may be ovulating when it happens . I do
my previous post was meant to say it does not hurt or smell or itch! haha.
it seems to be most days and it varys from heavy to light. sometimes its enough to make my underwear wet an uncomfortable.
it seems to be most days and it varys from heavy to light. sometimes its enough to make my underwear wet an uncomfortable.
I have had this problem before. I was told that it could be becuase I wasn't that "turned on". When a woman gets "turned on" her cervix moved up and out of the way, if she is not "turned on" then her cervix may stay low(er) and in the way. Then when her partner penetrates, he hits her cervix, which can be/is very painful.
Maybe try using ALOT of foreplay before and see if that makes a difference.
Take Care and Good Luck
Maybe try using ALOT of foreplay before and see if that makes a difference.
Take Care and Good Luck
my only other concern is that i have been havin unprotected sex with my partner for some time now an not conceived. do you think i should mention this to the doctor?
How long have you been trying? Most dr's want you to try for 1 year before they start doing any tests.
Do you know when you are ovulating. That would be the best place to start, there is alot of information about TTC online.
Do you know when you are ovulating. That would be the best place to start, there is alot of information about TTC online.
Semen *always* runs out after sex. Gravity, ya know. It does not impact your ability to get pregnant at all. Here's a really wacked analogy for you: think of sperm as the passengers on a train (semen). The train stops at the station, the passengers get out, and the train leaves. Lol.
As for the pain, he's probably bumping your cervix. Are you fully aroused before having intercourse? During arousal, your vagina lengthens and the inner two-thirds basically "balloons", allowing for much deeper penetration and more comfortable intercourse. You can also avoid positions that result in deeper penetration - basically, anything that bends you in half...
As for the discharge, it's probably normal, but if it burns or itches, or has a fishy smell, it's probably an infection and you should see your doctor.
As for the pain, he's probably bumping your cervix. Are you fully aroused before having intercourse? During arousal, your vagina lengthens and the inner two-thirds basically "balloons", allowing for much deeper penetration and more comfortable intercourse. You can also avoid positions that result in deeper penetration - basically, anything that bends you in half...
As for the discharge, it's probably normal, but if it burns or itches, or has a fishy smell, it's probably an infection and you should see your doctor.
its only painful if he goes really deep and it varies on the position too!
im worried about the fact that my body seems to reject his sperm!
im worried about the fact that my body seems to reject his sperm!
Is the pain when he hit's the "wall"? I keep toilet paper beside the bed for the clean up. I scoot over to his side of the bed too, just in case i don't get to it in time. what kind of pain are you feeling>
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