here are the facts of my situation
1. before i inserted my penis in to the vagina, i checked it and wiped the tip to make sure there was no precum
2. the penis would not fit in the vagina.
3. about 10 seconds of thrusting, but it wasn't going in
4. penis check afterwards - no precum
5. i did not ejaculate beforehand
6. i did not ejaculate in the vagina
7. i did not feel any orgasmic feeling at all during the sex, which wasn't even really sex
8. i'm incredibly scared