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Worried about pregnancy

hi, i am a bit worried and i just need to get some answers. my boyfriend and i of two years made love the other day but we did not use a condom. it was on the 12th day of my cycle and i have a regular 28 day period cycle. he did not *** inside of me, i finished him off by hand because we knew that if he would *** inside of me we would get pregnant. ok the question is, is there really any sperm in precum? i have searched and searched many websites and it says that precum only contains sperm is there was a previous ejaculation and it wouldnt contain sperm if he urinates because the urine kills the sperm or washes it out of the urethra. but the thing is i want to know if his precum had sperm because he hadn't masturbated in a whole week and i was wondering if sperm would enter his precum because of the high intensity of his excitment? he had urinated like 5 times throughout the day and like 10 minutes before we made love. please i need answers!

thanks worried777 (age 18)
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so me and my boyfriend have not used protection once and he has came inside me every time. I v taken probably a hundred pregnancy tests and they all come out negative. But lately I've been feeling kinda sick. But I've had my period this month. Every time were done having sex all the semen comes out. is some thing wrong with me? he already has a baby girl from a different girl. I need advice on what to do. please help
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just wondering something.. me and my bf had protective sex but i moved to the side and it came off him, we found out 10 seconds later i want to know what the chances are!! I took a shower and tried cleaning myself completely.
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But good luck with everything sweety
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hey i am not sure why you would bother having sex without protection if you dont want a baby? its just stupidity, sorry i am young too nd i know how exciting nd daring it is not to use protection but think about what your gambling with....
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I'm due on Saturday and will be 21 on Sunday... It's not much fun knowing that my life will be put on hold for a few decades and I have to raise a baby when I'm not even fully grown myself.  
So, I know what you mean by what you said, and I havnt even really gottn there yet.
Anyways, to Worried, be careful. It is true that you had sex at your probable ovulation time, and precum does contain some sperm, and it does take just one... but in my opinion.. even know it's possible, I doubt it. Lots of things are possible, dosnt mean it's going to happen all the time.
Be careful,and take care of yourself. Get on birth control, there are plenty of options out there.

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Oh sweetie you are 18 with your whole life ahead of you?  Are you going to marry this boyfriend are you ready for housepayments, bills, full time jobs worrying about insurance and whether you can afford to get your child school clotheswith a dwindling pathetic wardrobe of your own? Screaming baby in the middle of the night not to mention the stress at terrible twos and the testing of the patience battles........... Stressed out yet?  Yes? Okay breathe deep breathes ....chances of you being pregnant are pretty slim SO TAKE precautions!! I got pregnant at 19 then married then divorced and i finally just got it together at the age of 28 with my almost 9 year old daughter i really do hope she is married before she worries about being pregnant!!!!

Good Luck
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well i hate to be the one to tell you but precum does often contain sperm it only takes 1 also you had sex right at the right time to fall pregnant you should ovulate day 14 on a normal 28 day cycle semen can easily live up to 5 days maybe when your late for your period take a test if af dosent arrive good luck.
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.. I wouldnt worry too much about it... Dont start stressing because then your period might come late or you might skip it and totally play games with your mind.
So your due around the 11.. havnt done the math just making a guess... so if you dont see AF by then or a few days after take a HPT. But seriousely, dont stress right now because the stress could offset your monthly visit... and you dont want that. :-)

Take it easy
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