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ok i had sex with my ex boyfriend around easter so like sometime between the 21st and 30th or March. I took a test on april 9th because i had been having pregnancy signs (to early to tell maybe) but it was negative I then got my period that day. Well after this i started having unprotected sex with a guy friend of mine and things got serious and i am now with him. I am now almost 6 months pregnant and i am due january 14th when i go to websites and put in my january 14th due date it says i conseved on april 23rd ok well then that means its the guy friends baby but could all of this been dated wrong and in reality its acctually the ex boyfriends baby or am i just over thinking everything?
please some advice!!!!!!!!!!
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This is a common problem.  I would not worry if I were you.  It is most definately your friends based on the dates.  Period aside you will know by the mesurements how many weeks you are pregnant.  You are the only one with doubts.  You can make yourself sick.  Test the baby or go with the one that is most likely.  It is up to you.  Maybe even test the ex without the friend knowing just to ease your concious.  But my money is on the friend being the father.
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you can spot and bleed but not a full blown period


"Well, no, you can't get your period once you're pregnant — once your body starts producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) and your pregnancy is established, your menstrual cycle is interrupted and normal periods stop. But you may have bleeding or spotting during pregnancy that can seem like a period.........Abnormal bleeding can also be a sign of ectopic or tubal pregnancy."

its your friends. your going to have to get a dna test because you think its your exs and its better to be safe
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i have a friend that had her period for the first few monthes of her pregnancy. and another friend that had her period for a couple monthes. so it is possible spot and bleed for a few monthes in your first trimester. i have not experienced this but I have heard from my best friends
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my mom had her period the whole time she was pregnant with my sister it happens to some women....its a smal percentage but some women experience it
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no thats not how a pregnancy works

you get a period when you have a double uterus or something. most women do not get their period when pregnant. your not supposed to get your period when pregnant. you can spot or have some bleeding. but you dont get a PERIOD.

you conceived Wednesday, April 23, 2008. you didnt even have sex with your ex in april. its not his. its not possible for it to be his unless it stayed alive for 23 days which it didnt. you can check on the maternal and child or pregnancy forum. you will get a lot of responses there and im sure they will all tell you the same thing
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I have heard that you can still have a period while preg, Sometimes people have what is called Implantation, when the egg implants to your uterous it sometimes causes some bleeding, which by the way has been mistaken by many a women to be a period, so it's not far fetched.  When did you start having sex with your guy friend? Was it after the April 23rd date?  
  
It has been reported that sperm lives in the body for up to 5 days and ovulation happens once a month, and a pregnancy test shows positive 12-14 days after ovulation.  
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no i do not want it to be his but you can have a period and still be pregnant....it has happened both to my mom and my aunt thats why im so unsure!!!!!
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just get a dna test done when your baby is born!
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your not going to. you had sex with your ex....got your period...so that means it not your exs. then awhile later you had sex with your friend...didnt get your period...found out you were pregnant.

you dont get pregnant then get your period. its the opposite. besides the dates dont add up to it being your exs. im assuming you would like it to be his but im sorry its not
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i know i posted this but i wanted it to show up on resent questions to see if i can get some different opinions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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you already posted this and i was many who answerd you....the answers not going to change!
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its this friends baby
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