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weird bleeding, missed period, not pregnant, or am I?

A month ago me and my bf were getting intimate and  during foreplay he felt something that he thought was just me getting really wet, so we thought everything was fine, then he got concerned and turned the lights on and there was blood everywhere and it seemed like it was pouring out.  He was getting a bit rough, so I'm not sure if maybe the tissue up there just started bleeding because it's really sensative or what...  Also, i had just got done with a period a few weeks before that so I know i wasn't on my period when it started bleeding.

Now, I had my last period a little over a month ago.. It was I believe at the beginning of May.  It is now the middle of June.  I still havn't gotten my period and i took a pregnancy test just incase and it came up negative.  My boyfriend and I had sex twice in the last month. i am not on bc anymore and don't want to do it as much, and we used condoms both times, that I can remember.  We are very careful about that stuff.  

From reading the symptoms of being pregnant I have none.  And I heard that acne gets cleared up as well when your pregnant and that definitly has not happened.  I am almost not worried about it at all... and I don't think I am pregnant but i still have this.. what if? and it's scaring me a little.  

Is that weird bleeding anything to be worried about or is it linked to my period not coming?  Do you think that i am pregnant or am i just worrying myself! I am not very regular but on bc i was. I am off bc now for 2 months, and am seeing a gyno july 7th and going back on bc. Help me....
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Yeah, It bled a lot and when I saw how much came out I was crying so hard because I thought there was something majorly wrong.  It did continue for a few days, not very heavy but enough to have to put a tampon in so i didn't leak everywhere.  In about 2 days though it was gone and havn't bled since.  When I see the gyno i will talk to him about it and i am sure i'll find out what is going on.  Does this sound like I am pregnant or probably not?  I don't have any symptoms of pregnancy at all so i don't know whats going on.  
What is weird thougn is that my mom and me both had our periods around the same time last month, about.... a week apart and she hasn't had hers either...
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Also, I had a friend who spent the day in the ER because her boyfriend was too playful and she started bleeding alot.  It turns out that he tore something inside of her.  It took a few days for it to stop bleeding.  I'm not saying that's what happened, but if it doesn't stop, seeing the doc. wouldn't hurt.
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When I got off the bc pill, my body had to adjust and I had weired periods and very irregular periods until my body adjusted to the different hormone levels.  Depending on how strong your pill was and when you got off, your body my be trying to adjust.  I would call the nurse from your ob/gyn office or where you got your birth control pills. I know how irritating it can be and how anxious you feel.
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An idea just popped into my head and made me curious.  During foreplay is it possible that from being rough my bf could have caused me to somehow have another period right after one a few weeks before? And now i am going my period is going to be late because of that?

Just another thing to consider...
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