Aa
HOW??
If there was no blood on the condom after our frist time sex what does that mean?
Right well thank you!
COMMUNITY LEADER
As penswriter says, it does not matter if a man ejaculates, the key concept is that he put his penis into your vagina. In anyone's book, that is having sex.
when you say his penis didn't produce anything do you mean semen? it doesn't matter if it was 1 second or 1 hour, if his penis was inside your vagina you had sex.
like we've all told you not every woman bleeds their first time.
like we've all told you not every woman bleeds their first time.
Ok so he told mi that when we were having it his penis didnt produce anything an we didnt do it for a long time anyway what does it mean?
and thank you Annie Brooke.
and thank you Annie Brooke.
COMMUNITY LEADER
OK, so you are saying that you had sex and you thought that absolutely every first time for every woman, there is blood, and now you are wondering if you really didn't do the thing that everyone calls 'having sex' because you didn't have blood?
LOTS of women do not bleed their first time. They used to say "women who have done sports or horseback riding" didn't bleed, but I didn't bleed my first time, and I never did horseback riding and my sports were not strenuous. (Volleyball was my sport, and it will not rupture the hymen.)
When we're growing up and hear stories featuring the phrase "rupture the hymen," we think the hymen must be sort of like the top of a drum, and the guy puts his penis onto it and -POP!- the hymen breaks. Well, it's not like that. Some hymens come over the vaginal opening more than others, but they all have at least a small opening already, or the flow from the period could not get out. And the membrane is very thin. Yours might have been pushed aside already from one cause or another, or it might have just moved to the side with no bleeding when you had sex.
Google 'female reproductive anatomy' or 'hymen' and you should find a lot of information on the shape of your lady parts.
Good luck! Good work using the condom, too.
LOTS of women do not bleed their first time. They used to say "women who have done sports or horseback riding" didn't bleed, but I didn't bleed my first time, and I never did horseback riding and my sports were not strenuous. (Volleyball was my sport, and it will not rupture the hymen.)
When we're growing up and hear stories featuring the phrase "rupture the hymen," we think the hymen must be sort of like the top of a drum, and the guy puts his penis onto it and -POP!- the hymen breaks. Well, it's not like that. Some hymens come over the vaginal opening more than others, but they all have at least a small opening already, or the flow from the period could not get out. And the membrane is very thin. Yours might have been pushed aside already from one cause or another, or it might have just moved to the side with no bleeding when you had sex.
Google 'female reproductive anatomy' or 'hymen' and you should find a lot of information on the shape of your lady parts.
Good luck! Good work using the condom, too.
As none of us were there, we can't tell you that. For sexual intercourse to take place, there has to be penetration. Only you know if that happened since you were the one involved.
So i did have sex?
COMMUNITY LEADER
What does it mean? Nothing. :)
Like Clysta said...it means there was no blood. Not every woman bleeds after their first time.
It means there was no blood? Nothing says that you have to bleed the first time you have sex.
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