what to do

[me702]

hi,so i've been going out with this guy for 6 months i'm 19 he's  22 and when i meet him he was a virgin so i had to show him all i can uk sex wise ..but my problem is he dousnt like anything but the reguler **** like me on top or him on top he dosent even eat me out but always excepts me to do a little before we start havein sex and he will only have sex on the bed in only 2 posistions ive tryied to make it more fun and interesting (example everytime i try and have sex on the floor or the coucth or the counter or a cheir he always stops right before we have sex and says lets go to the bed ..i try and tell him that the sex is boring for me im sick of doing all the same **** all the time,im sick of fakein being arozed,im always stuck finishin it for myself and he gets pissed because he knows i do ..like he wont even do it from behind its always the same **** and i try my best to teach him more but when i do he always says he wants to stick to what he knows and hes not up to learning anything more ...i guess my qu is sould i like masterbate before we have sex or watch porn or idk what sould i do i have never once gotten off with a guy im always stuck finishn it ...what sould i do ........and if u say brake it off with him i wont do it cause no matter how boring it is i still love him and only him

[BluCrystal]

I say you should watch porn together.  That will give him new ideas, let him know that doing the same thing all the time is not abnormal, and plus he may find it arousing.  If this is not a possibilty for you, go to a website called Dodson and Ross.  It is not a porn site.  But it does discuss things of a very sexual nature, in a dignified way.  Check it out. - Blu

[Jennajj]

I understand where your comming from. Perhaps he has never
Tried anything but the basics and so that's what he is sticking to. Try doing things to turn him on say when you are watching tv or in the kitchen. Show him that you want him right then and there. Write his sexy notes and leave them around his house. Make him take his mind off how he's having sex with you or where he's having sex with you and just do it. Hope this will help!

[Caryopteris]

It's common at 19 to think a guy is your one and only, but this is not a very good match at all in the long-term.  Trust me - you should be nice and appreciate him for what he has to offer, and just realize he has been a good boyfriend but not the last one.  There are plenty of girls who will think the kind of sex he likes is perfect, and plenty of guys who are just waiting for somebody like you.  Pace yourself because the absolute earliest you should settle down is around 26, and 29 would be better.