worried about bleeding

[mrsbaw]

Hi.. I have a question!

I am married, a year now. Every time we are having a sexual intercourse, I am bleeding. Sometimes a lot (few days before my period) and most of the time not. We are now physically together for almost 6 moths. I met him last 2010 and he is American. And we were in a long distance relationship for 3 years. He only visited me before 3x for only 2 weeks. Before I met him..I only had 1 BF for 5 months and I didn't really bleed (maybe because he has small penis). I was single for 4-5 years and no sexual intercourse with anyone til I met my husband now. So anyone could answer me what is wrong? what is the cause of bleeding? I have heard a lot. I did some research before that maybe i am still new with my partner and he is too big for me and we are doing it rough and passionate and someone said maybe cervical problem. but my period is really regular and i dont take any pills. I am only 5'4 btw and he is 6 ft. tall. Thanks in advance!

[Jackie440]

In the beginning I did and  still sometimes I got cystitis .  Dr. said it may have been because bladder was being bumped.  By the way, if you get symptoms similar to bladder infections but not that feeling that you are peeing razor blades Alka Selzer helps.  Bladder infection needs to be treated by Dr. cystitis doesn't. Found  that cure out in London. they sell over the counter relief for cistitis and it  gave me so much relief I showed my Dr. was helped me  and she said that is alka selzer.  Something about the sodium works wonders.

I think it is always best to have gyno check out the bleeding because it could be it is not what we think.  Get rid of any doubt and  then enjoy yourself knowing your ok.  Good luck , and don't worry.
Jackie

[mrsbaw]

Hi Jackie440! Thank you for that. I appreciate it! I think I am still new to my partner since we've been apart for a long time and that we feel I am still tight. I am just too worried and I might go to see a Doctor soon. I have not done any test yet. When you started that Jelly, do you still bleed when you guys do sexual intercourse?

[Jackie440]

  Don't worry mrsbaw.  This happened to me also.  I am 5ft. and my boyfriend is 6:4 and  well endowed. Hopefully, you go for regular paps test. My problem turned out to be cervic  became bruised and irritated.  Advice I got was use plenty of lubrication like  KY  jelly and that should help.  If continues see your gyno and  she might recommend something else.  Try this, first and hopefully, it will help.