Melissa that's what I was thinking too with already being open.
I wish I could use another form of birth control but from my experience with other types as well as some research this seems to be the best option. I was talking to dh about it last night and he agrees about not wanting more kids but he feels wrong asking me to get a tubal because it's so permanent.
Lisa I have 2 girls and this one is a boy so the only way I wouldn't get my tubes tied is if for some reason he comes out a she!
I am planning to have my tubes tied:) I have 4 boys and now my little girl so i think that's enough. This factory is going to be closed (LOL).
I've talked to my OH & told him there is ABSOLUTELY no way I'll be cut open so he has to get a vasectomy done. BUT I may not have a choice as he had 1 done many years ago & apparently it didn't take as we're now having our 4th child (still birth twins, 2yr old daughter & 31 weeks pregnant) together & have had 3 miscarriages as well.
Since you are having a c-section anyway it makes sense to have a tubal at the same time. :-) Good luck :-)