Tonite my fiance wanted me to help him light up the outside pilot light to the hot water service and he wanted me to light up a rolled up newpaper it kept blowing out and he got pissed off and punched me on the leg he has never been violent towards me before we have been together for 11 years he has had a heart attack and then a stroke and a part of his brain is dead due to the stroke others have noticed he is getting bad his attitude ect he wont go to the doctors and is only taking asprin and plavix he spose to have other meds but is not taking them what am l suppose to do about this lm scared that he might lose it one day and smash me l dont want this to happen as lve been in very bad relationships in the past where blokes have done this what can l do please help me:(
I really can't comment with regard to how your enviroment is directly affecting your overall health but I can make some suggestions on how to proceed with regard to your extended heavy periods. My wife was in pre-menopause and thus her periods became very irregular down to only a few a year. She started having heavy prolonged vaginal bleeding with no other symptoms. She had a transvaginal sonogram which showed a complex solid cyst/mass on her ovary. I then had her see a gyn/oncologist who orderd a battery of blood work specifically CA125, CEA and Inhibin A&B. These blood tests are not definitive for any diagnoses but are used as guides to aide or guide the Dr forward for further work up.
I would reccomend that you see your GYN and at the very least have a transvaginal sonogram, blood tests CBC and complete chemistry panel along with the blood tests I mentioned above. Be your own advocate and unfortunately you have to be agressive. Get copies of ALL your tests as you are intitled to them. Post with results and if you have any further questions
Regards
Kevin