Ohhhhhhhhhhhh Beverly............
I am here to help u.
I go thru this everyday, all day with my bf/fiance too.
Story of my life.
Does he want to quit? Or do YOU want him to quit? Let's start there.
It needs to be his decision, anything you do will be taken as just another nagging woman. You might really think about is this the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you leave it may just be the wake up call that saves his life.