Hi. I'm a 20 year old and I have been diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. I also have three herniated discs in my back as well as scoliosis. Last year my doctor prescribed me darvocet and I was ok with it. Then my doctor left private practice and my new doctor wouldn't prescribe me any. My back started hurting so much after I stopped getting my darvocet. My mother has a worse back than I do and she is prescribed a bunch of hydrocodone pills a month. She would occasionally give me one and it would feel really good. I hate to say this but I have been living with this secret for a long time and I don't want to be like this anymore. I have taken my mothers pills from her for like...8 months. Not all of them. Just some here or there. Lately I've been taking like...6 pills a day and I want it to stop. Every time I try the pain in my back is murder. I get withdrawal symptoms, too. But the pain is so bad that I can't walk. I want to stop this now because it is ruining my life. I just want to be a normal 20 year old and not end up like my mom who has to take 12 of these things a day just to function. I don't know where to start. I don't want my family to know because I'm afraid that they will hate me forever. I was wondering if anyone knows how to start the process of getting off of these things. As I type this for the first time I'm crying my eyes out. I never wanted it to get this far and I just wanted my pain to stop hurting. I'm so unbelievably ashamed of myself and I need to stop. Thank you for reading this, whoever is.