Cranberry~ Until HE wants to go or reaches out,there's not much you can do. He's on
a downhill course where stepping into hell would be a step up .
5 overdoses. No wonder you're scared. Tramahaters' advice was really the best at this point: AlAnon!
All the best~
Vicki
Honey, I used to abuse both meds at the same time. I even ODd and had to get my stomach pumped in the ER and went to ICU for 3 days. DID NOT STOP ME! That's just part of the story. 15 years worth of stuff like that but until I was ready, nothing mattered. Not my kids, not my husband, not my parents....NOBODY! It's so sad to me to hear that someone is in the shape he and I have been in, but it happens.
Have you been to AlAnon? You may just have to concentrate on yourself until he hits rock bottom. Maybe you leaving him would be that bottom?
Good luck, sweetie. Take care of yourself!
The thing about the percocet is all the tylenol in them and that will eat up his liver. If he has had 5 overdoses. Tell him exactly what you told us that your scared your going to find him dead. Keep at him about getting help. Tell him you love him and understand but he has got to get help. Tell him if he loves you that he would get help. Tell him you would do the same for him. Do you have kids. Maybe he will do it for them.
Good LUck
Jessica