I read that to mean that he/she is compassionate towards people trying to get well but has a harder tm expression he compassion to an addict who maybe isn't really read to get hlp just yet. I find the best way for me to behave when I cant say some thing supportive or compassionate is that I just say nothing, which while it can be awkward, makes me feel like I'm keeping my sie of the street clean.
My side of the street is just fine ty
So when you walk in a na meeting you have no compassion,,I"m confused
I've been "lurking" for several months - had 12 year sober in AA prior to landing full on into a Norco addiction - I'm tapering right now and then will be doing a whole lot hanging on during with drawal. Thinking about trying Suboxone although I have some Xanax so i can use that to take the edge off during w/d. I just said what I said because I have seen a lot of people in AA/NA meeting who are new trying to express something and not getting in quite right or not being quite ready to be hit in the face with reality like a mac truck and they leave. I hadn't seen posts from Joel yet so I figured he was just starting to test the waters. Hopefully folks here can do what is best - as they say in AA, take what you need, leave the rest. Thanks beachtowel - I'll read more of your posts.
A big part of any 12 step program in honesty and while I appreciate that you say what needs to be said it's possible you could find a little class and compassion -- I'vre read man of your posts and find you to be high and mighty and offensive. If you talk how you write you likley shame folks who are still trying to get their recovery legs underneath them away. Have a little compassion and tact.
Lurker welcome to the forum,,,,
I do have a soft side and have expressed it many times.........
Honesty is the key but addicts are great liars........
I am about recovery wondering if someone should take Vicodin or Percocet has nothing to do with recovery and the wrong mindset.......
How long have you been here and how many posts have you read of mine....
I have been posting for over 6 months.........
I have compassion for the person but none for the addict........
There is a difference and reasons why I am more firm with some than others.....
But I do hear what your saying..........