hi guys, am not using that drugs but my husband is a user.i know that his using but when we talked about it,he promised to me that he stop using it.But yesterday i found out that he used again, before that incident he said that his arm feels like shaking and there's a ground like some kind of electricity,is this the sign of withdrawal? or his craving to use again?
hello guys...i've been trying to fight these shabu drug addiction of mine for almost 12 years...for the first time now, i've been sober for 7 days already...but my backs started to ache...it's so very painful right now...is these one of the withdrawal thing or maybe i'm craving for it again...i hope you coud advise me or something...
Hi ac23. If you got to the top of this page and hit back to forum. it will take you to the current forum. this is a old thread. Please repost what you had written so you can get the support you so deserve ok. it will be on top and you will see a ask a question button on the left.. type in there and hit.
I'm sorry to say but the excuses he gives you for using is that of a addict.. Hitting you he has no right to do. Do you have family that you can tell this to and stay with till you figure this out ? I'm afraid for you as he crossed a line with physical violence and nothing is stopping him from doing it again. You must protect yourself and your baby.. I'm very sorry you are going through this and please re post so you can get support.. warmly lesa
hi i also have a problem..i am 20 years old.I had already a family. my husband is 34yrs old and taking drugs too..well eventually it is his second time to use after he went for rehabilitation..maybe 3years ago..im his second wife..someone told me he use drugs just last year of feb.then i ask him and he did not lie to me.. i already know this when i gavebirth to our son..as of now he still use it..he told me his reasons like;
-he used it for business purposes becuase he cant think when he didnt take "pajero"or shabu..
-he also used it to raise his "adreneline
-he became good when talking to a client
but i just noticed to him is that;
-he have insomia because he always go to bed at 4 in the morning and wake up at 9.
-he cant eat food a lot especially fried dishes..he always want a soup because he told me if the person is inuse he just chew the food like a bubblegum and take hour before they swallow it thats why he want soup.
-he drinks water a lot
- he also prespire
-he always want sex
but he hit me twice thats why i am afraid coz i dont know what he can do next..I try to tell it to his parent but he warned me that once i tell that,,he will leave us and never come back again..what should i do..please help me..
i also had a friend who is addicted to this drugs...the good thing is he himself surrender and went to rehab....from then, he no longer uses this drugs. i think 5 years. my question is "is he totally clean?" i mean.....that shabu on his body is that totally removed? im so happy for him for what he did....a lot of my friend told me to stay away from him because he was once an addict and he might do something bad...and added to me that addict is always an addict. ... he seem so well behave when we have the chance to talk do need to worry? help me?
hi tine26. im ram. a filipina. i have tried shabu i was never dependent on it.
here are the signs if your husband had taken sahbu:
* he is awake in the wee hours of the morning. like insomnia. he cant
sleep.
* he prespires a lot.
* he doesnt eat much. he loses his appetite even with his fav dish.
* he is very alert. speedy. always smiles without any reason.
energetic. thinks very quickly and a lot of things running in his mind and talks a lot like non stop. or say things that are out of this world.
* dry lips.
* most of all, keeps on drinking water as if he is thirsty every 30mins.
hope this helps.