i don't have a comment, i have a question. My husband has chronic back pain and has been given (legally by, as we call him, Dr. Feelgood)norco, duragesic patch 75 mg, duragesic "lollipops", neurontin, elavil, meprobamate, soma, and he washes them all down with a couple of cases of beer a week. he takes approximately 12-15 norco a day, 4 neurontin, 6 or 8 soma, 4 or 6 meprobamate, 2 or 3 elavil. Is is me, or should his Dr. be shot?
Dilaudid took me away from everything and everybody. Dilaudid was my family, lover, and god. It is stronger than morphine and almost anything except good heroin and opium itself. Oxy's are bad, because oxycodone is not meant to be shot.It does not come in an injectable form. Dilaudid does. The pills are water soluble. The high from oxy's lasts longer, but the kick is not as strong as with d's. A lot of people are on methadone or buprenex to kick oxy's and dilaudid. Other brave souls are using the recipe and kicking on their own cold turkey. Depending on how much your friend is using, it could be dangerous for him to kick cold turkey. This sight has good advice. Listen to some of the others. Go back and read what they have to say. Good Luck with the friend. Remember - he has to want to do it. You cannot heal him.
my friend is trying really hard to quit oxys, or so he is letting me believe, he also has a dilauded problem, and he is trying to ease his way out of everything, but i am not sure how to help him do this the best way possible. he is thinking about quitting the oxy al together and just doing the didauded to keep him from getting really sick, but i don't know anything about these dilaudeds, and i don't really think he does either. he is down to about 40 mg of oxy every other day, and is about to try and cut to 20s, every other day. is this doing ANYTHING?!?
I understand your apprehension regarding the end of your taper.
I was ready to detox off methadone the first time, and stayed clean for 6 months. That is not a lot to many people, but it was for me. Methadone works for me. I also do not have the option of the buprenex detox. Can you talk to the nurses or doctor at the buprenex clinic? Tell them you are not ready to detox yet. If you have reservations about staying clean, you have to do something sure. Do you go to NA? A home group might help keep you clean 24 hours at a time. It is hard for me because I do not exactly believe in the 12 step method. Lossing my will and choice is like losing myself. Today I choose not to pick up. I am strong and mean when it comes to drugs. I was battered enough during my years of chronic pain and legitimate use and illicit use after that. Methadone saved my life this time. I surely will not stop until I am ready. I have a doctor's appt. this morning. Gotta go for now. Good luck. You can make it with the right help and your own strength. Angst
wow - your post was amazing. i really feel that i truly know where you are coming from. but, i don't have that faith that you seem to possess...i've yet to find my "higher power" - i'm not even sure what that means. i'm not a religious person, but i don't think a higher power is necessarily about god.
i have plenty of reasons to live...and live a healthy life. i tell myself that all the time, but it doesn't stop the destructive behaviour. i'm not sure what i need to "see the light" - do i have to lose everything to get there?
i'm still on the buprenex taper....but the day i stop for good is the scariest thing in the world to me.
When i was in treatment, off all drugs, in a state of extreme anxiety, i did not have a divine experience. I had a heart attack, a real M.I. I am spiritual since I have my life and psyche back somewhat. I know the methadone and xanax make me feel normal. I will detox again off the methadone when the cravings are lessened. I am strong and mean when it comes to picking up again. The psychotrophic drugs-xanax and trazadone-seem essential for my disorders. The only benzo I cannot take is valium. I tried it at a treatment center, and I became so depressed that I wanted to die. I left the Club Med of treatment centers. I found my divine power inside myself. Sometimes it is that unconscious will to survive when I've prayed to die. Other times it is a precious holiness I cannot explain to anyone else. My higher power did not get me into drugs, and I had to get myself out of that environment and mind set. When I was weak in body, I was strong spritiually. I went though so much gut wrenching guilt. I felt worthless. I thought everyone would be better off without me - that was totally irrationally thinkiing. Then, I started slowly to find the higher power I had opened my heart for many, many years ago. Guess what, it was still there with open arms. I've had to do
a lot of work on myself to feel worthy of a divine power. I guess you could say I have thought very little of myself at times with good cause. Relapses have taught me more than I wanted to know. Thanks for sharing.