Wife Driving Me Nuts

[BlotOutTheSun]

This doesnt have a whole lot to do with addiction, my wife gets on the internet all day long finding things she wants and will not leave me alone bout them, ive told her we dont have the money, but she keeps pestering me, what can i do to make here stop, shes been like this for a couple years now its driving me crazy

[BlotOutTheSun]

well i deterred her for the moment, i told her instead of wasting time on spending money why dont you find out how to get your ged online instead so that worked for the moment lol

[mom2amj]

before I was diagnosed with a compulsive disorder I shopped and bought things all the time, and made impulse buys on huge things.  SHe may need counseling or medication...the meds worked for me

[newhope61]

maybe it does have to do with addiction, maybe it's her addiction, hard to know without more info
good to see that you are doing so well yourself
i used to spend a lot of money on "stuff" before i had to buy my pills
my husband would tell me at the end of the month how much money we had so i could buy what ever it was i was pestering him about so i knew that was my limit

[BlotOutTheSun]

ya then she says well why dont we cut off the internet that 50 a month, but that doesnt even touch the payments on the stuff she wants, ive told her a thousand times, she just keeps complaining over and over, until i fianlly get it to shut her up, and live even further in debt than i am now

[jenny8575309]

Have you tried sincerely talking to her and telling her how this makes you feel?