Nice post and I agree with everything but "relapse IS a part of it",,relapse can BE a part of it but we are addicts and were looking for anything to justify using and saying relapse IS a part of recovery gives me free one. have a good day
Don't beat yourself up to bad. Relapse is a part of it, unfortunately, especially in the begining. I bet I can tell you somthing to make you feel a little better about yourself! I was coming up on 4 years clean and sober, and I relapsed! I went back to my AA meetings and confessed to all and picked up a 24 hour chip, talk about humbling! Get back up and try it again! Have you tried any meetings such as AA or NA? I can become addicted to anything under the sun, but my drug of choice was pain pills prefferably oxy's, but I relapsed on lortab from having some dental surgery. Anyways, I go to AA just becuase I find I like it more. Just try some meetings out! I swear it is impossible for me to stay sober alone, I have to have my meetings and the fellowship!
Like everything else in life it always seems larger, bigger, more daunting...until you tackle it head on and then hopefully say..."that's it"? It always seems worse thinking about it...I obviously need some sort of mental/addict support to help. I feel so much better just throwing it out there again....last night at 10pm was my last pill forever! I want to enjoy xmas with my wife and kids clean!
You can do it. You know you can if you did it before. At least you know what to expect. I have 10 days. I started using after 2 weeks but fortunatly it was only 5 pills and I knew it wasn't where I wanted to go again.
there are alot of wonderful caring people on this site so keep coming in esp. if you have a compulsion tell yourself you'll come here first and say it.
I will keep you in my prayers.