how do u do it

[farmboy2209]

how do you tell your father that he hasnt got control of anyy thing he owns. I have a full power of attorney and have too try to explane to him where he can under stand that im not trying too hurt just help him and i need too be in control and do the thing in his life and mine to keep going. any sugestions

[have 2 kids]

You probably aren't going to be able to explain it so he will understand.   This all goes hand in hand with dementia/alzheimers.   I would listen to what he says (not that most of it will make sense) and then make the decisions that are in the best interest.   I wouldn't keep bringing up that you have power of attorney.  
Good luck!

[margypops]

Dont say it, it is hurtful.. anyway steer clear, talk about positive things, let him still have some contorl if he can, that wont hurt you will it. Good luck