helpless

[Samc113]

i feel extreamly guilty as eight months a go me and a freind started dieting after a few weeks i became extreamly courtios of what i put in my body but still ate very low cal meals so she followed suit and we have been happy doing this for month  however i then had to go and have my guld ladder removed last month however there was a complication with my heart so i had to stay for a while, however i phoned my freind when i got home an her mom told me she was addmitted to woodboure pirory for anrexia. i realy want to go and see her but as result of the op iv lost even more weight and i dont want to up set her but i dont want her to think iv forgot about her what should i do i feel so low an helpless?

[sadmomma4]

Go see her!  Friends should always be supportive no matter what.  I am sure not only will she be happy to see you but she will be happy for you (for your weight loss.  I speak from experience!  So don't hold back go for a visit.  And with no gall bladder you need to watch everything you put in your mouth and you may want to get a digestive enzyme from the healthfood store because (also from experience) without a gall bladder it's extremely hard to keep the weight off and sometimes you just gain for no apparent reason.  Good luck with your friend and your new gall bladder free life!!!!

[Bridget A. Hewitt, RN]

Hi and thanks for using the forum.

Visit your friend.  She could use your support and you obviously want to see her.  Follow your instincts and see her.  

Bridget