pregnant and very depressed

[stephanie09181990]

For the first 8 months my fiancee and I were together I found out he was lying to me about him not looking at porn. Everytime he goes to his family's house and I don't go I get worried that he is still looking at it even when I'm there with him I worry because he has also done it while I was there with him. I'm 3 months pregnant and I can't help but be depressed about it 24/7 I'm worried that our baby will be hurt because of my depression. Please help me. I can't seem to trust him at all.

[katelynnnn]

I'm two months pregnant and I just had my son almost 10 months ago. I have been super depressed! And I hate my body because of my last prengnany.

[Bridget A. Hewitt, RN]

HI and thanks for using the forum.

Have you asked your fiance about this?  Have you discussed your feelings with him about it?  Since it bothers you that he may be doing this, talk with him about your feelings.  If you are having trust issues with him, then you may both benefit from couples counseling to help you learn to communicate with each other.  Having a baby together brings a whole new dynamic to your relationship.  It will make it a much easier transition if you love and trust each other.  Good luck and congratulations on your pregnancy.

Bridget

[lovelylay]

porn isn't anything to be mad at him about I watch porn and I'm pregnant he may be trying to perform better in bed with you in bed I had trust issues also but that's how you will never be happy I use to feel everytime my mate looked at his phone he was texting another female you have to learn to trust him its hard because men do things very sneaky behind our backs but that's only because they know our reaction wouldn't be so nice start thinking about the baby and positive things it will be hard because it was hard for me but I learned