My 81 year old mom has Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma grade 3, estrogen + breast cancer with a tumor of 4x3x2 cm. No node or met survey yet.She says she has lived a good life and prefers not to endure the pain and discomfort of surgery, chemo or radiation, but wants to enjoy the time she has. Our question is what is the likely course of this disease if untreated? The tumor is easily felt. Would the pain of a tumor rupturing be more problem that surgery and recovery? Or is it most likely with this disease that a met will express itself and cause death by compromising a distant site. I am having trouble finding any information about the progress of this disease if untreated except with palliative care. Thanks.