hello, i am new to this forum, greetings. i have an odd problem with my 20 month old baby boy...he won't stop putting his finger in my nose. it is mostly when he's sleepy and wants a cuddle, and sometimes just for no apparent reason when he's in my arms. we have plently of cuddle time, both with me, or with his daddy. he is definitely not lacking there. sometimes he plays with the tip of the nose, sometimes he just latches his finger into the edge of the nostril, and sometimes he sticks it all the way up (ow!!!). he does this to his daddy too. he started doing this around the time that we stopped breastfeeding, at about 7 1/2 months old, and we have tried everything to discourage it for over a year now. i've tried just gently moving his hand away, i've tried being firm and holding his hand down, i've tried sweetly explaining, i've tried mommy is angry, i've tried firmly explaining, i've tried "throwing" his hand away from my face, i've tried giving him something else to do (ie, hold mommy's hand, touch mommy's cheek, face, hair...), i've tried simply putting him down explaining 'no you can't sit in my lap if you put your finger in my nose'...sigh.... i've tried giving him stuffed animals to cuddle, even one with nostrils to put his finger in!!... the thing is, i know he "gets" it, when he wants to, and i say "jack, where is your finger? no nose!" sometimes you can see the little wheels turning in his mind, he will listen, and take his hand away voluntarily....
he is otherwise a very good child, we have no complaints or problems, he listens and responds, i'm a stay home mom, his dad is very present and attentive too, and he has activities and play dates with other children, with and without me...
has anyone else encountered this??? our pediatrician said that babies like to touch mommy and daddy's faces, though he never saw the nose thing! his method is always to calmly explain things to the child, which we do!
my nose is sore :(