Abnormal behavior

[apurv123]

1. My son is of 4 yrs now. Since the age of 2 he use to throw the things and beat other child near to him.
2. He do not sit properly to eat and drink.
3. He now shows anger with every word of no
4. He can not control his anger
5. He destroy all the toy just after they are bought
6. He tries to break all the things and tear off the clothes when in anger.
7. He is not willing to write alphabets but is happy to read and learn rhyming poems.
8. He beats his mother and father also if they object for any wrong deeds.

[allmymarbles]

I have noticed in general, and it may not be true in this case, that Indian boys tend to be spoiled.

[OldFatChick]

He needs to see a psychologist.  Now.

[allmymarbles]

Could this be a simple case of spoiling?

[margypops]

Could you give some idea of the dynamics in the house, you have given us a list of his behaviors ,has he got siblings, does anyone else around him, family or baby sitters, upset him, do they yell ,could he have seen and be copying this behavior, yopu say from 2 years old, has his family had a Doctor check him out to see if there is any obvious problem .you say he 'beats his Mom and Dad ,do they allow him to do that,? perhaps he should have some boundaries set , time outs have been known to work.Firtsly with this 4 year old it may be a good idea to find out WHY he is doing this , 'he does not sit properly to eat or drink' in what way, what is it he gets angry about can you give us an instance ..