hi my boyfriend has a daughter from a pervious realtionship, she is 4 years old now. First i will tell you that her mother was pergnant again and lost the baby due to "dna problems", well at least that what she told us. When her mother was pregnant she was telling us that her boyfreind pushed her down the stairs, of course my boyfriend ask her mother, she said no. Since then his daughter has been saying her mothers boyfriend, broke a chair, punched a hole in her bedroom wall and has been hitting her mother. We find out that her being pushed down the stairs was true and now we are worried that he is being pyshcialy abusive in front of her. On top of that when her mother lost the baby, she gave birth to him, gave him a name then took pictures with the dead baby, and has is ashes in a case she keep on her. She makes her daughter call the case "trevor" that is what she name the baby. Her mother lost of her friends because she has told all of them off, she calls them and ask for pictures of her daughter back becuase they ar not good enough to look at her. What do we do with all of this?