Thank you for your advice. She does usually eat well, she eats a lot of cereal and fruit but not as many veggies as she should. We have been divorced since she was 2 1/2..and up until 2 weeks ago she was with her father every weekend. We moved 2 weeks ago to NC from MO. Her father is still in Missouri. She seems to be dealing with that very well. He is a severe alcoholic and it is best that she not be with him until he takes care of this. After reading everyone's posts here..I have decided to tackle the BM problem first. I believe that this may be the root cause of the wetting. I just gave her a laxative to help her go..maybe we can get her regular that way. I need to find a doctor out here to have her rechecked for bladder or urinary tract infections. She has come up negative in the past..but with the odor I have to wonder about that. Thanks again for your help! Sorry to be so long-winded!
It would be a good idea to have her checked out for any bladder infections , it also occurs to me that her diet may be causing some problems is she eating enough roughage , cereals,Yoghourts, Fruit, Veg may be she doesnt eat enough bulk, so work on getting her eating patterns good,this will help her 'BMs' ,she could be upset from Divorce if she has been witness to a lot of problems between Mom and Dad. Plenty of reasurrance will help, love ,seeing her Dad regularly, and dont forget to have FUN that is very important in any childs life ..