coception question ?

[Britbrat2016]

I got pregnant & im really scared because I had sex with my boyfriend may16/17 & then I had sex with another guy on May 30th I found out I was pregnant at the hospital on June 6th my Obgyn said I conceived on May 16th and my due date is February 8th 2016 I just need somebody's help because I want the baby to be my boyfriends really bad but I'm scared & I'm already 4 months pregnant ..  

[Nubiangoddess99]

Hi,I have 6 wonderful boys and I can tell u its your boyfriend baby. Good Luck

[teenmomma1998]

I'm dye Feb 2 conceived may 12th so pretty sure it was guy #1

[AnnieBrooke]

The 9th what, week of pregnancy or day of June?

[Britbrat2016]

It was about 2 weeks after the 9th .

[AnnieBrooke]

I guess I should ask, just to clarify -- was it on June 6 that the doctor did an ultrasound and told you your due date, or was it later in the pregnancy?  If so, how much later?  You said it was from an ultrasound, but didn't say how early in the pregnancy the ultrasound was.  (They get less accurate for dating a pregnancy over time.)

[AnnieBrooke]

I didn't mean to look like I was giving you the brushoff, I was trying to say, don't take counsel of your fears, they can grow so big that it's impossible to see the logic in the situation.  You sound like you got correct info from your doc, and that is enough of a time gap that an embryo beginning on the 16th would not look a thing like one that began on the 30th.  It's easy to be fearful, but recognize the fears for what they are, just anxiety and not reality.  Good luck!  (((HUGS)))  Annie

[AnnieBrooke]

If your ob-gyn looked at an ultrasound this early in the pregnancy (when it is most useful for making this kind of determination) and told you that your conception date is May 16, do trust his many years of medical education, training, and practice, it was not May 30.  Your fears are just fears, they don't indicate reality.  I am sure you are OK.  :)

[Britbrat2016]

They weren't able to see the baby at the beginning ...

[Britbrat2016]

Yes it was from a ultrasound !

[AnnieBrooke]

When the doc said February 8 was your estimated due date on June 6, was that based on an ultrasound?  If so, I would count on it to be correct.  He or would not have been able to see an embryo on the ultrasound if you had conceived on May 30.

[Britbrat2016]

Thanks for the little bit of help..

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi.  Well, I am not sure what good anyone's reassurance on the Internet will do if you aren't reassured by your actual doctor looking at your medical records, but it does sound like you conceived well before May 30.  The calculator I use says May 18, but that is more accurate if your estimated due date came from an early ultrasound.  When you went to the hospital on June 6, did your ob-gyn order an ultrasound?  How early in the pregnancy did the doc say you were, and was it from the ultrasound or just a calendar or a little wheel?