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Who Am I Pregnant by? Guy 1 :( or Guy 2 :). :(
I have a question I am pregnant. My last menstrual period was June 5, 2015. My period lasted seven days. My cycles are always 28 days. I had a one night stand thing on June 25, 2015 around 12:30pm with a condom. (I know very STUPID of me, and I do not have any contact with this person nor do I have his number. Will never see him again as I do not know his name.)However, afterwards I felt really wet I am not sure if it was from me or from the individual. He assured me it was me and the lubrication on the condom. We even squished the condom to see if it was broken and nothing came out. I however, was worried maybe it came out of the top? The liquid inside me smelled like nothing. I was paranoid because I knew I was doing wrong. So maybe it was me, my own wetness? Then on June 21, 2015, I had intercourse with my actual REAL partner(fiancé) and we used a condom at first, he never finished as we were sleepy and fell asleep it was maybe around 3 am ( I am mentioning hours just in case that can help). When we woke up around 9 am, he entered me without a condom just for like no more than a minute and then he put on a condom. He had not gone to the bathroom all night or in the morning. Well again he never finished in the morning because I was too tired. On June 22, 2015 we had intercourse with a condom, he never finished. Then on Sunday, June 28, 2015 me and my REAL partner had intercourse with a condom and I was bleeding lightly, again he never finished. On June 29, 2015 we did it again without a condom this time and he pulled out before he finished, but some did fall on me. Then On June 30, 2015 I felt sick to my stomach. On July 2, 2015 I was supposed to get my period and I did not get it. Then on July 15, 2015 I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. I am pregnant with twins based on the ultrasound I had on July 16, 2015. The lady said I was five weeks pregnant. Could it be possible that the ONE night stand guy could have gotten me pregnant even though we used a condom? Or is my partner the one even though he never actually finished? My partner does not know I had the one night stand and obviously is happy I am pregnant and with twins. I however cant stop thinking about this and do not know if I should continue with the pregnancy as I already have two children and I am not sure if my mistake was what caused me to get pregnant by a man that is not my partner :(. My ovulation date based on online calculators say I ovulated on June 19, 2015. :( That would be two days before June 21, 2015 the day me and my partner had any contact. :( :(
I am so glad i googled and found this website...otherwise i would have not known about prenatal paternity testing. Thank you everyone. :)
Sorry for the typos. I woke up sooo happy and i had not done so for a long time.
My boyfriend is really happy. Now hes even think further into our future. I showed him the paper. There are many things that are many markers that are compared and me and him both match half/half to those markers so he is super excited. He was also kindo of doubtful of how i got pregnant and i even sent the report to my best friend she didnt believe me as well :) So happy. Thank God. God is good.
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That's the good news you were hoping for. :) I hope it turns out as well for 201603.
great news!!!!! 30 seconds of tired sex. .no ejaculation csn get you pregnant!!! Its a miracle!!! My bf is 99.9 percent the father....its a miracle
Thank God !!
Thank God !!
Sorry...i have been sleeping a lot trying to stop thinking about everything...i cry everyday...im depressed... Ill check my box in a few. In my case its very dificult because if he finds out the babies are not his i will lose the only support i have...and im carrying twins...ill even lose my job...and i dont even have a reliable person to take care of my three year old daughter much less two more children...all by myself..i dont know what to do. :( :( i rereally think i got pregnant by the guy i used a condom with...no way i could have gotten pregnant by my bf...precum can get you pregnant but in seconds i dont think so :'(
How are you doing today? I'm having a tough afternoon it's running through my mind non stop maybe I'm just emotional
I was counting from there also but the gestational age is the one fhats more accurate when do u have your next apt ? I messaged you my email if u want to talk there this post is a little difficult
No they just counted from my LMP
Idk why it keeps cropping my responses grrrr and I just hope I ovulated late and that I still had my bfs swimmers in there have they measured your babies ? The only hard thing is twins grow smaller so it may be off
According to my scan conception was the night I was with the other guy
I think its your boyfriends. He was with you during the time you were fertile. Then they say sperm lives up to seven days and i didnt know that.That is why i am scared of being pregnant by the guy i used a condom with because it was a few days before online calculators say i ovulated :( I dont even know when i ovulate. :(:( You probably do not know when you ovulated either :(
I understand the stress what freaked me out more was the scan in just hoping I still had my bfs swimmers when I ovulated I'm having another ultrasound this Thursday in hoping they baby measures differently
I understand you 100
In regards to the noninvasive prenatal test I did on the 17th. I did it because I am basically trying to figure out if I am pregnant by my boyfriend and not the other guy I will never see again. I looked at a website from the United Kingdom that does noninvasive prenatal test and it says they are able to do the test, but only for the DNA of one fetus. That it is rare that a woman gets pregnant by two men. Even if I was to be pregnant by two men...what is important to me like I said is to know that I am carrying my boyfriends baby even if it is one and not solely the other guys children. It is all my fault that this is happening and I am paying for everything and this test for me is for peace of mind and not for any legal purposes. I told my boyfriend we were getting a paternity test for HIS peace of mind since we had just gotten in an argument on the 15th when he stated that my children were not his because he never even came close to ejaculating. So if these children are not his I will not lead him on because he is very happy he is having twins and all his family and friends are aware. I am praying to God that I am just overreacting because I mean I did use a condom with the other guy it would just me my misfortune to have to be carrying his children when I was supposedly protecting myself. I dont want that mans children. :( :( :( I can't stop stressing and crying every day. Whatever is the result will be the outcome of all this. I pray to God for a positive outcome on all of this.
Girl you don't know how bad I'm hoping and I know there's a huge advantage since he did finish especially on the 17th it's just the doubt that kills me.....
I was doing calculations and i think guy 1 in your case is the father.
Mine also I had read that ddc sends it to natera but now I'm not sure
$1,600
How much was your test?
Just maybe...
Yes i went with the test because i am desperate in need of answers now i do not want to lead him on...maybe it will come out with accuracy...
Same situation here :( I have my ddc test scheduled for next Tuesday they say results will take up to 20 weeks.....
LMP june 2nd
Partner one
6/14 finished
6/17 finished
6/19 (mistake person #2 pulled out)
6/21 finished
on 8/6 I was told I was 8+5
I'm so worried I know its my fault and im doing the test to determine my decision about this pregnancy
LMP june 2nd
Partner one
6/14 finished
6/17 finished
6/19 (mistake person #2 pulled out)
6/21 finished
on 8/6 I was told I was 8+5
I'm so worried I know its my fault and im doing the test to determine my decision about this pregnancy
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I disagree that you are "doomed," even in the worst case. As a practical matter, you will decide what to do, and your life will go on. (Possibilities include adoption, you raising the children, your boyfriend stepping up.) Talk to someone who has dealt with infertility -- she will tell you that saying you are doomed when you are successfully pregnant is ungrateful about the blessing of pregnancy. But even if you don't feel that way, saying a word like "doomed" is catastrophizing in advance and there is really no point in doing that.
One thing that I am surprised by is that, if the DDC told you that your test will not necessarily give you an answer because you have twins, you went ahead and had it done anyway. It sounds like you will be out all that money for a test that you can't rely on. Did you go to a well-reviewed lab? Did your boyfriend know you were testing, or did you do it surreptitiously by taking his sample off a drinking glass or something? (If the latter, I am not sure you would get an answer.)
One thing that I am surprised by is that, if the DDC told you that your test will not necessarily give you an answer because you have twins, you went ahead and had it done anyway. It sounds like you will be out all that money for a test that you can't rely on. Did you go to a well-reviewed lab? Did your boyfriend know you were testing, or did you do it surreptitiously by taking his sample off a drinking glass or something? (If the latter, I am not sure you would get an answer.)
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