Please Help!!!

[DaisyD22]

This is so embarrassing but I need help on who may be my baby's father before my baby boy arrives January 24, 2015. Okay I had met my partner last year in December 2013. We started messing around December 26 and then again December 28, but on new years I messed around with this guy name terrell he used protection. Then January 19 me and my partner got involved again & we didn't use protection. I didn't get involved with anybody in February. But march 2 I messed with this guy name craig, he says he didn't use protection he was just that one night only. So me and my partner got involved again march 9 and didn't use no protection. Then April 5th me and terrel messed around but he used protection once again. Then April 27 me and my partner messed around again without protection that's when I stopped having periods and conceived may 3rd and my due date is January 25th 2015. My last period was April 19 and went off the 23rd. Please help me figure out who may be my baby's father! This is a lesson learned.

[DaisyD22]

Same to you☺

[Poppyseedbaby]

Anytime hon good luck on everything :)

[DaisyD22]

Thank you guys so much! And I appreciate that you guys didn't say anything negative to me because of this situation. AnnieBrooke you was so helpful and I'm trying not to stress and yes I did get check for a std and thank the good lord I was STD free! And PoppySeedBaby this was a lesson learned, I do not plan on having multiple sex partners. I'm a mother now this is my first child. But I thank you guys both!

[Poppyseedbaby]

Hey its not for us to judge here. It looks like it might be your partner. But you should check for any stds to be safe.  Also if you plan on having multiple partners use protection. Its not only for them but for you. I wish you luck in your pregnancy m

[AnnieBrooke]

If the due date came from a relatively early ultrasound, and/or all your scans have said the same due date consistently, you would have conceived on or around May 4.  Anyone you had sex with from about April 28 (I guess you could say April 27 if that was the last time you had sex) would be a candidate for dad.  It sounds mostly like that was your partner.  Craig had nothing to do with it, if March 2 was the only time you had sex, he would have been a month too early (and I assume you had a period after him anyway).  Terrell from April 5 was also too early, and besides, he used protection (not a thousand percent reliable but better by far than if he had not).  If your partner was the only guy you had sex with from late April through early May, that is the guy who has by far the strongest chance of being the father.

Incidentally, it would be a very important thing to do to get tested for all the STDs if you have not in the normal course of your prenatal care.  That is a lot of unprotected activity, as you have noted, and you would owe it to all three men to let them know if you had passed something from one to another.

Get the DNA test, just to put your mind at ease.  But it does not sound like anyone from March 2 or April 5 was anywhere near late enough to have gotten you pregnant.  Try not to stress.